and I'll tell a personal story, when I was a teenager, like 19, I was reckless. I had gun cases and drug cases, and drunk in public, I was wilding. I was arrested one time, and spit in a cops face from the backseat, before being processed, the cops jumped out, and handcuffed me to a chair, and pepper sprayed me directly in the face, until they asked me to say please stop, which I did after awhile. I was crying involuntarily from the pepper spray, couldn't rub my eyes, and finally they applied the water or whatever.
After, they stripped me to my boxers and sent me through the holding tanks, freezing in my boxers, while more and more people went in the tanks. It was hours and hours before I got dressed out, and on a rack. It was a humiliation tactic. But, I didn't cry to the guards, didn't post on IG about it, (this was in 2005, but just for the point I am making) partly because, I did some dumb shyt, and it was my fault, to a degree. Not saying grown cops should abuse a drunk teenager, but I was pushing the line, and I got pushed back. Now, I am not saying be some kind of mans man, stoic to the end, and bottle up emotions, but take some responsibility for your actions. Tired of the crying from these kids.