It'll register with some kids...others, it'll just add more fuel to the fire/rebelliousness.
My parents showed me a lot of love.It's just that,when it was time for them ass whoopings, they went in.
Some parents only know how to "go in" on their kids.Those are the ones who become hardened criminals/sociopaths.All they know is pain...to the point they become numb to it.
That's what creates monsters.
Its a mental aspect to this....pain comes from all sorts of things in life. When you are disciplined, you have to know beforehand and afterhand, that what you have done has a consequence. "Going in" can be perceived many ways by many different people, but the main point that will always come out of it, is that the individual has to know that you not going to just get away with shyt.
Half assin disciplining your child or letting up throughout life, because people outside feel a different way will just hurt them more. Love and pain has to be balanced out, because they both are interchangeble anyway. How is a person going to just show "Love" to their children, yet not punish them enough to help them see that what they've done is wrong, that's not love. You settin your child up to believe they can go into adult life doing whatever the fck they want and not be punished for it or at best get a slap on the wrist, because they know momma and poppa will let up so why not society.
And nikkas definitely should not be taking this approach with the way cac
society has set up traps just for that day........
