C'mon.
Can we not pretend that all of those things aren't reactionary coping mechanisms to deal with being born into a society that shyts on them and makes them feel less than?
Black women don't feel valued.
They don't see themselves reflected in the standard of beauty that prevails in the west.
When they do see themselves it's as a slut/whore/thot or an angry, ghetto, ratchet.
Sometimes a combination of the two.
If no one else is willing to praise them, why be so harsh when they want to praise themselves?
Sure...it may seem crazy to build your own pedestal and climb up on it yourself...but who else was gunna put her there?
Maybe it's a lie sometimes.
But let's not pretend like we don't see it for what it is.
Maybe, instead of sniping at each other and taking shots where we know we're weak, we should build each other up?