Thinking about giving my female classmate a second chance :patrice:

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

So there's this ethiopian girl in my graduate class who I've been pretty cool with these last few semesters. I finally got a chance to really try to talk to her this class, so I took the opportunity to ask her for her number. I took some of our meeting of eyes and smiles and friendly chat to mean she thinks/might think I'm cute, so I decided to try her. Right when I asked her, shorty was like "don't you live two hours away? " but we exchanged numbers anyway. At first I took what she asked to mean that she would be interested in talking, but the distance isn't attractive to her, but then I started thinking about it more and started to feel awkward and thought maybe she just wasn't interested the way I was.

Anyways, I texted her a week after I got her number, saying hey, but she never texted me back. I was instantly on some shyt and didn't even bother trying to text her again. The next time we were in class I didn't say shyt or even look her way. Two weeks later, she comes to class and when she walks in I can feel her eyes on me. I look her way only to see her staring at me and smiling. We meet eyes again and she waves at me, obviously wanting to be friendly. I decided to ignore her again though, just because once a girl doesn't text me back I move on. I think she got the message because I could see she kind of looked disappointed when I quickly glanced at her when she wasn't paying attention. This was last week.

So anyways, today was the last day of class and we both had presentations to give. I go the whole class without talking to her, but when everyone is leaving I touch her on the arm and say bye. All of a sudden she starts talking to me, asking me questions about how long I have left in the program and asking me about other stuff. We start walking together, and the next thing I know she's following me to the student center where there's a bunch of restaurants. We keep walking without really having a destination, so I decided to invite her to have a smoothie with me. We end up walking to some bench and talking for like an hour. Mind you, I had class 45 minutes after our class had let out, but when we got to talking she just opened up completely. Even when I was trying to leave and she kept saying that she didn't mean to make me late, she would change the subject and I would be stuck talking about something else. Now throughout this convo she's smiling and laughing and being really open with me, so I told her when I was about to leave that if she's free, we should hang out this summer. At first she's like, that's cool, we can do that. Then she asks me if I hang out with anyone else outside of class. Then she proceeds to say that if I did we should have a group hang out So then I told her that I don't hang out with anyone in our program, and she tells me that's okay and then tells me to text her sometime.

Anyways, I left her and went to class 35 minutes late. After sitting there for 10 minutes I decided to text her and tell her it was good talking to her. She replied the same back, so I decided to test her. I tell her that I had texted her before but she never texted back, and that it confused me and made me think she thought I was weird. She then tells me she's sorry about that and says that she doesn't think I'm weird. I tell her, good, because I'm not. And then the convo ends.

Not really sure what's going on in this broad's head. I think it's either she has a man and is keeping it quiet or she's not feeling me on that level and just wants to be grad school friends

What y'all think?

 

[Smoke]

That's a lot to read bro-gawd

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

That's a lot to read bro-gawd

I will go back and underline the important plot points of the story

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

@Smoke done

 

[Vonte3000]

So there's this ethiopian girl in my graduate class who I've been pretty cool with these last few semesters. I finally got a chance to really try to talk to her this class, so I took the opportunity to ask her for her number. I took some of our meeting of eyes and smiles and friendly chat to mean she thinks/might think I'm cute, so I decided to try her. Right when I asked her, shorty was like "don't you live two hours away? " but we exchanged numbers anyway. At first I took what she asked to mean that she would be interested in talking, but the distance isn't attractive to her, but then I started thinking about it more and started to feel awkward and thought maybe she just wasn't interested the way I was.

Anyways, I texted her a week after I got her number, saying hey, but she never texted me back. I was instantly on some shyt and didn't even bother trying to text her again. The next time we were in class I didn't say shyt or even look her way. Two weeks later, she comes to class and when she walks in I can feel her eyes on me. I look her way only to see her staring at me and smiling. We meet eyes again and she waves at me, obviously wanting to be friendly. I decided to ignore her again though, just because once a girl doesn't text me back I move on. I think she got the message because I could see she kind of looked disappointed when I quickly glanced at her when she wasn't paying attention. This was last week.

So anyways, today was the last day of class and we both had presentations to give. I go the whole class without talking to her, but when everyone is leaving I touch her on the arm and say bye. All of a sudden she starts talking to me, asking me questions about how long I have left in the program and asking me about other stuff. We start walking together, and the next thing I know she's following me to the student center where there's a bunch of restaurants. We keep walking without really having a destination, so I decided to invite her to have a smoothie with me. We end up walking to some bench and talking for like an hour. Mind you, I had class 45 minutes after our class had let out, but when we got to talking she just opened up completely. Even when I was trying to leave and she kept saying that she didn't mean to make me late, she would change the subject and I would be stuck talking about something else. Now throughout this convo she's smiling and laughing and being really open with me, so I told her when I was about to leave that if she's free, we should hang out this summer. At first she's like, that's cool, we can do that. Then she asks me if I hang out with anyone else outside of class. Then she proceeds to say that if I did we should have a group hang out So then I told her that I don't hang out with anyone in our program, and she tells me that's okay and then tells me to text her sometime.

Anyways, I left her and went to class 35 minutes late. After sitting there for 10 minutes I decided to text her and tell her it was good talking to her. She replied the same back, so I decided to test her. I tell her that I had texted her before but she never texted back, and that it confused me and made me think she thought I was weird. She then tells me she's sorry about that and says that she doesn't think I'm weird. I tell her, good, because I'm not. And then the convo ends.

Not really sure what's going on in this broad's head. I think it's either she has a man and is keeping it quiet or she's not feeling me on that level and just wants to be grad school friends

What y'all think?

Why are you beating around the bush? You should have straight up told her you wanted to hang out just you and her

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Why are you beating around the bush? You should have straight up told her you wanted to hang out just you and her

I should have, you're right. When someone says something that I think is peculiar, I stop and obsess over it mid conversation, and I leave it alone and try to make sense of it. I've been told many times not to do that, and to just straight up ask. It's been a problem of mines for years.

 

[Smoke]

That's still a lot tho slime


But idk 5, I mean I personally would've tossed her the first time she ignored my text and that would've been that. But I mean maybe now that she's gotten to know you a little bit, she's more interested?

 

[Kenny West]

it was weird

you were being weird asking about some old ass text....and texting her right after you saw her. you care too damn much

but you had a good vibe/convo with this chick which means you can have a good vibe/convo with other chicks. Do this and you'll realize how much of a dork you're being someday

 

[Couth]

over analyze these females brehs.


You sent her a 1 word text? Call next time.

Its impossible to tell what she was thinking. Maybe she had another dude ahead of you in the rotation, maybe she legit forgot to text back, maybe she was playing hard to get. Idk.

Sounds like shes interested now though. Stop p*ssy footing around and bust a move on her.

And stop being a simp. You're out here pining after the same female but too scared to bus a move, allowing her to make you late for class, texting her ten minutes after you guys just talked. What part of the game is that?

 

[Vonte3000]

it was weird

you were being weird asking about some old ass text....and texting her right after you saw her. you care too damn much

but you had a good vibe/convo with this chick which means you can have a good vibe/convo with other chicks. Do this and you'll realize how much of a dork you're being someday

How is that weird? shyt was rude on her part he deserved to have some kind of explanation if they're going to at least be friends
at least let him know she was busy or something

 

[Vonte3000]

over analyze these females brehs.


You sent her a 1 word text? Call next time.

Its impossible to tell what she was thinking. Maybe she had another dude ahead of you in the rotation, maybe she legit forgot to text back, maybe she was playing hard to get. Idk.

Sounds like shes interested now though. Stop p*ssy footing around and bust a move on her.

And stop being a simp. You're out here pining after the same female but too scared to bus a move, allowing her to make you late for class, texting her ten minutes after you guys just talked. What part of the game is that?

Yeah that was a little weird

then telling her "good, because I'm not." was a little forceful but some hoes like that I guess

 

[hoodheronova]

she dont like you my n*gga. You should have told her straight up that you was tryna to be more than friends. Put her in a spot where she cant bullshyt you. It might be too late now.

Here's what i would do: invite her out wit a friend of yours from the program (make sure its a girl). Go to like a museum or some shyt (a crowded place that has an activity). Act cool throughout the whole thing then tell your female friend to bounce for a few minutes ( tell her to go make a phone call real quick). When you and shorty are alone, put everything on the line wit her. Tell her at first you thought she was just a pretty face, but now you see she has a beautiful heart too. If she rejects you then go watch porn till you forget about the bytch

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

it was weird

you were being weird asking about some old ass text....and texting her right after you saw her. you care too damn much

im saying

u basically let her know u were inscure
and damm near asked her if she liked you


u placing yourself in a sucka positon


shyt made u look desperate

 

[Yoda]

grab yo dykk, slap the hoe and tell her straight the fukk up u wanna fukk her where she pee-pee (or poo poo if she got the butt)

 

[Guile]

Don't put too much thought into this shyt.

Looks she on that Drake don't respond to your text but let you know she got it type shyt.