Thinking about marriage

[TSweeze]

I know I'm ready because I am have the stuff in place to become stable enough in my life to take on another person.

I'm not going for the bottom of the barrel because I want a person who will provide. I don't want to be a sugar daddy to no one and then them leaving and taking half. I want to go in with what I have to offer and see what they bring to the table.

I want someone to hold it down. I'm not going to rush into anything. You're young, I'm 24 and it took a couple L's to learn to know what I have to have in order to even consider getting married.

 

[KeysT]

Long distance?

This wont end well

Military. Its the life we are used 2.

 

[Taadow]

Military. Its the life we are used 2.

Uh oh...

 

[KeysT]

breh, you gotta get cheated on first before you even THINK about getting married. getting cheated on gives you a whole different kind of perspective on relationships and how to deal with women. That entire "gems" thread is constructed by nikkaz who got cheated on by their women. if you haven't experienced that yet, you are not ready. cause if your wife cheats on you and it's your first time dealing with cheating, you will jump off of a building or exterminate her and her family. shyt is painful, b. it's like police officers getting sprayed with pepper spray in the eyes so they can know what it feels like. but afterwards, they are prepared for a direct spray because they already know what it feels like. can't go into a long term relationship all green and shyt.....

So your telling me I gotta leave my girl... go find a ratchet.. get cheated on...and THEN I'll be ready?

 

[KeysT]

Uh oh...

 

[The Bilingual Gringo]

22? Marriage?

Go live life, you've got plenty of time for all of that. Society puts that burden on us, I think a lot of people get divorced now a days because they rushed into something and didn't get a chance to explore and see what's out there.

 

[god shamgod]

Been through it a couple times. A lot of stuff I can't relate to though as far as women cheating and stuff like that. I dont know whether I've been lucky or what but all the girls I have messed with have been good girls for the most part. Usually it was me who messed up. I'll def. shoot through the whole thread again to catch anything I've missed.

Don't waste your time reading that waiting to exhale for males thread

Them nikkas are jaded and giving terrible advice based off their bitterness

Do what you wanna do if shorty the one then wife her

 

[jalamanta]

Live with her first

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[JerkPork]

"Too soon! Dont do it! Reconsider!
Read some litera - ture on the subject"

 

[malbaker86]

I need help brehs... I already know I probably share that girl and all that.

But for the first time I could actually see myself with this chick for the rest of my life.. A part of me thinks im too young (22) but another part of me thinks that I will be fine. I have been with her for over a year now. We are in a long distance relationship not by choice but we see each other often. She already met the fam, I've already met hers.

For all you married folk, how did you know you were ready?

I got married at 23 and I knew I was ready to get married AFTER we lived together for a few years and I was able to enjoy waking up next to her everyday and "deal" with how different it is living with a female and still be happy when it's all said and done.

If y'all AREN'T living together first, I would look into living with her first so you can see how she is on a daily basis and how she manages her $$ on a daily basis.

 

[KeysT]

Don't waste your time reading that waiting to exhale for males thread

Them nikkas are jaded and giving terrible advice based off their bitterness

Do what you wanna do if shorty the one then wife her

I thought I was the only one who thought that. Im sure there is some advice hidden in there worth listening 2, but a lot of it is women bashing.

"Too soon! Dont do it! Reconsider!
Read some litera - ture on the subject"

If I do tie the knot/jump over the broom im playing this.

 

[KeysT]

I got married at 23 and I knew I was ready to get married AFTER we lived together for a few years and I was able to enjoy waking up next to her everyday and "deal" with how different it is living with a female and still be happy when it's all said and done.

If y'all AREN'T living together first, I would look into living with her first so you can see how she is on a daily basis and how she manages her $$ on a daily basis.

We have lived together up until we both got PCS'ed.
she is clutch with her money. Investments galore. She put me on game as far as investing. Her bank account is

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Never get married before 25

shyt, I'd argue 30. I never wanna cheat on my wife, so I wanna get all my hoeing out of my way before marriage. You don't wanna be at all the prime p*** you might have to turn down cuz you got married at 22

 

[malbaker86]

We have lived together up until we both got PCS'ed.
she is clutch with her money. Investments galore. She put me on game as far as investing. Her bank account is

well then you good to go bruh. what's holding you up?

 

[KeysT]

shyt, I'd argue 30. I never wanna cheat on my wife, so I wanna get all my hoeing out of my way before marriage. You don't wanna be at all the prime p*** you might have to turn down cuz you got married at 22

well then you good to go bruh. what's holding you up?

This.... and finding a ring/figuring out how to propose.