Thinking about quitting my job brehs...

Bunchy Carter

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Moved up to management about a year and half ago... been promoted twice since then.

But Im fukking miserable. Can't sleep, gained loads of weight, anti-depressants, people I work with don't seem to like me, Im 10-15 years younger than everybody else, sometimes I can see the hate in their eyes.

When I think about going to work I get knots in my stomach. Last couple of days Ive been contemplating quitting and I get filled up with relief. I smile. I feel at ease.

But at the same time the money is so good. I work 6 hours a day, come when I want, go when I want. What about the future? Maybe I wont get this opportunity again.

Help a breh out.

So; I'm in the same boat as you. People look at me with hate in there eyes and they do not like me. You know what; I love it. I love it because they thought I was not going to be shyt and they thought I was stupid because of the ways I look; I'm black. Now there jealous of me and the shyt that kills them is that they have to listen to me and say Hello or Hi to me. Also they have to ask me can they do something; everything go through me, fukk them.

Evertime I walk in there I have the :jawalrus: face.
 

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Count your blessings. You only gotta work 6 hours a day and making good money. I work a shytty job making peanuts. You say u come and go as u want, what a luxury. And you're a boss.

This.

Even tho I worked my ass off, things lined up lovely and I lucked out. Im truly grateful. I should be on top of the world.

Maybe its me really, maybe Im not cut out for this.
 

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Moved up to management about a year and half ago... been promoted twice since then.

But Im fukking miserable. Can't sleep, gained loads of weight, anti-depressants, people I work with don't seem to like me, Im 10-15 years younger than everybody else, sometimes I can see the hate in their eyes.

When I think about going to work I get knots in my stomach. Last couple of days Ive been contemplating quitting and I get filled up with relief. I smile. I feel at ease.

But at the same time the money is so good. I work 6 hours a day, come when I want, go when I want. What about the future? Maybe I wont get this opportunity again.

Help a breh out.

You should look to @Stuntone for career advice... He's been in your shoes :lolbron:


Quit that shyt, money aint everything bruh. It's not like you're making life changing money anyway.


I quit my job and left DC in July, I'm now back in Louisiana, back in shape. I'm dating some very sexy young women (25 and 22yo), met a nice 20 yo this past weekend. I'm 33. My life in Louisiana isn't as glamourous as it was in DC, but I'm having way more fun. It's real down here I'm about to go on vacation tomorrow, before starting my new job for Dept of Homeland Security.. A little money and being real goes a long way here.

60k in Louisiana > 100k in DC :whew:
 

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If it's to the point where it's affecting your health you gotta devise a real exit plan. Start working on your resume and cover letter. Have your cover letter professionally written if possible.

Also , look at constructive discharge. Air your grievances with your "superior".. If nothing changes you can leave and still be eligible for unemployment under constructive discharge.

Finally , you gotta get mentally tough. My first job I came in and tried to be the nice guy.. Said hello to everyone , stayed out of gossip etc and did my job. Still found out people were talking shyt and trying to sabotage me. People judge you and form opinions within seconds of meeting you. That hate I experienced hardened me up quick. I began to give zero fukks about feelings and the opinions of people at work.

In essence I grew colder but it helped me out tremendously. These people at work are not your friends. Go there and get your job done. If they report to you write they ass up , if not correct them every time they get out of line. Don't worry about what they say.. if it's not stopping your check from coming in fukk it.
 

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its obvious that your either a taxi cab driver or an uber driver. You got antidepressants? Where'd did you buy them shyts cause i know a doctor didnt give them to you.
 
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