Actually friend you are shading me in a passive aggressive way and i get it. Alot of people who dont train in Anything share your thoughts so its hard to put the mind of a fighter in the mind of someone who is not. Your solution to being grabbed is to shoot someone which sounds problematic for freedom.
Grappling to me, is fun. I train striking as well and its fun, its just not as fun as Brazillian JIujitsu because BJJ is something you can do at full power and still not hurt anyone. Its something you can use against foes and not completely devastate them. Its something that allows you to lose weight extremely fast. Its great and its great to be a complete martial artist from standing to the ground.
If you can watch this and only think about men rollin around together from a homosexual point of view to me, you may have unresolved issues in your mind. Grappling is one of the first sports human beings ever engaged in. Not football, not basketball, not boxing, not karate. GRAPPLING, friend. Its humanity in its Purest form.
Now please sign up for BJJ TODAY friend.
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