It is so interesting how you talk about how this girl is so hidious. How you aren't attracted to her at all, yet none of these guys call you wrong or shallow. But when one of the ladies on here say they aren't attracted to a male for whatever reason (height for example) they are all of a sudden shallow, cold hearted, air headed, bird brained btches with no lives. Yes, very
insecure intersting.
You sound as if you're speaking "for a friend."
I can't fault anyone for not giving play to someone who didn't look all that great, and I can't fault anyone not giving play to someone because of their height. But if you asked me, I'd call one reasoning much more shallow than the other, because with enough money or the right diet/exercise/style plan/makeup, etc., you can actually do something about one shortcoming.
But attraction is subjective. It's why when OP talks about his "sugar muffin" he names about three or four qualities before he gets to anything that would make her attractive (eyes). He talks about her being thin, a certain height, fat ass, flat stomach. All superficial. Like a facially-challenged individual can't have any of that. But you saw the pros he listed for the "ugly" chick (I put it in quotes because unless we get a pic, we don't know), right?
Easy to talk to (chemistry)
Cooks WELL
Ambitious/going places
Family-oriented
Tolerates his moodiness (shortcomings).
Shyt sounds like a wifey to me.
He is legitimately attracted -- not physically, but emotionally/mentally -- to the one he doesn't want. Because he's out here, by his own admission, breaking rules for her that he doesn't normally break (touching). He said, VERBATIM, "I keep thinking about her. I want to be around her." He started off the post by saying he knew she wanted the D and added that if she took it upon herself to push things to a

level, he would be receptive. He knows all this to be true, whether he accepts it or not is up to him.
If that's not attraction, I don't know what is. To be honest, I don't think he finds her THAT unattractive because if he did, and he was really that shallow (and how could he be given that he claims he's not pretty/handsome), he might not hang around her in the first place.
But OP can do whatever. Most likely, he will do whatever will give him an L. And that's fine. People are gonna people. No way around it.