This debate is shaking up social media and breaking apart families: who was wrong and who was right in this scenario ?

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  • Women right. Men bad.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Men aren’t mind readers…

    Votes: 17 100.0%

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Woodwerkz

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Been there!

This lady i used to date told me i didn't care about her because i never questioned her "change in demeanor".

I said "so let me guess...your co-worker asked you what's wrong....you spilled your guts and now you think i don't pay attention to you. Yet 2 weeks ago i rubbed your shoulders and asked if you were ok... you said yes. Last week i asked if you were good and you said yes. At that point I've done my part as an adult in a relationship. If you wanted my input you would have asked."

She said she communicated vividly with her body language but my lack of maturity didn't allow me to be receptive of her needs.

I broke up with her 2 weeks later.
 

Justin Nitsuj

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How a man supposed to figure what's going on with you if you not willing to tell him what's going on?
I recently had this same problem with this woman I know. One day we were talking and then the next, she blocked me out for no reason.
Then like two or three months later, she hit me up outta the blue and I was honestly pissed off about it, til she ended up explaining to me why she did what she did. Mental breakdown and some other issues I rather not discuss on here.
Hopefully she will let me know what's going on with her moving forward.
 

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I watched Twitter tear nikkas a new one for not communicating that they are going things so they need to communicate, it’s not ok to be aloof etc well what’s good for the goose is what’s good for the gander
 

Umoja

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Why is honesty so difficult?

She's out there calling him "a boy she used to talk to" meaning they're not in a relationship. Comforting her and finding out what's up isn't what he signed up for and doesn't make him less of a man.

It is easier for him to put the blame on him instead of the things she was looking for.
 
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