This girl I was dating dropped the ultimate bomb on me.

[Cat piss martini]

she sounds nutty as squirrel shyt....
let her stankin ass move to florida and
let her smear that p*ssy against you when she's
in town........she was gonna cheat on one of
you nikkas with the other anyways.
may as well be the one fukkin his ole lady.

 

[Maddmike]

Seems like she chose the nikka that's gone take care of her for life....pat yourself on the back, you dodged one crazy bytch that was gona contribute nothing but bullshyt.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

To be real, I was kind of afraid to post this due to trolling, but here goes.

I don't even know where to start.

Her = K

So me and K went to Jr high school together and lost touch once we graduated in 2001. We reconnected in early 2013 over Facebook. We chatted for a few weeks & decided to go on a date soon after..4 dates later, we're a couple! Things go sour because she kept thinking I was doing things behind her back with other women(I wasn't). After the 3rd argument, I decided to end things. This was October of 2013.


Fast forward to June of 2014, we reconnect again. She initiated contact over Facebook. Couple convo's later she tells me that she got engaged in December, but she wasn't happy and missed what we had. My gut told me to leave her alone, but I ended up seeing her again. This was a huge red flag but I was thinking with my dikk rather than my brain. Around July, she broke things off with her fiance & we started to go on dates again. I told her that the first go around was rushed & I really wanted to things to work between us, so we should wait before making things official again.


With my work & school schedule & her crazy work schedule, we rarely got to see each other. Maybe twice a month. From June of 2014 to now, we only seen each other a handful of times. Although we didn't see each other much, I was faithful to her & I assumed she was faithful to me. We even talked about children & all that weird stuff couples talk about.


A week ago, she told me she was having issues at home & her mother was close to kicking her out. She told me she was planning to stay with a female coworker until she could save up for a deposit on a new place.


Today, she dropped the ultimate bomb on me. She sent me a text saying that her ex fiance was back around & that she was going to marry him and leave to Florida. She told me that she loved me to death, but she had to do this to get her life in order.

Now, here I am lost and confused at what the hell went wrong. My stomach is in a knot & my mind is all over the place.

Thoughts?

this is your problem right here.. no matter what a woman tells you.. giving them your attention is always what wins them

when you were gone, someone else filled that... now she marrying him.. if you'd have been there everyday, you'd still be together


most women with a side piece, is there cause she got enough time alone to talk, text and fukk him while her man "ain't paying me enough attention"

 

[Suicide King]

this is your problem right here.. no matter what a woman tells you.. giving them your attention is always what wins them

when you were gone, someone else filled that... now she marrying him.. if you'd have been there everyday, you'd still be together


most women with a side piece, is there cause she got enough time alone to talk, text and fukk him while her man "ain't paying me enough attention"

She is a straight dud. Why would he want to be together with her?

 

[BlackAdam]

just send her

and be done with it

 

[cornercommission2k12]

She was always in love with her fiancé.

She just had this tendency to want to cheat. Maybe she loved the thrill of doing mischief and seeing if she could get away with it. That excites some people. Maybe she was afraid to fully commit to her fiance cause he was playing games. Who knows. But it's clear she was bullshytting you all along. And it's clear she never had any real intentions to settle down fully with you. You were just a pawn in her games she liked to play. Then she eventually felt guilty realized she was hurting many people and you became collateral damage in what she believed was her putting the pieces back together.

Be glad you didn't produce a child out of this and move on.