This How You Stop The Thot Before It Get In Them

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An asswhooping can provide a quickfix for certain problems but after a while it loses it's effect. My father who's Caribbean also thought the belt was the answer to disciplining me and my brothers. It wasn't.

In the end he realised that halting our social lives and taking our games consoles was a much more effective way of getting us to think and change our behaviour and I can say neither me or my brothers have ever been near a jail cell.

Although I'm glad I grew up when I did. How are parents not thinking of the consequences of filming this stuff and then putting it online.
 

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I dont vividly recall my "beatings", I think if you're at that age than you're too old to be beaten.
If you dont understand action and reaction at a teenage level (I was driving and working at 16), beating it into them wont do any justice.
Well, I've never seen it do any justice.
I agree. Corporal punishment doesn't work. It doesn't even hurt, and at the end of the day you'r e just teaching your kid to be sneakier.

Caribbean parents don't understand shyt like that though. They just attempt to beat the duppy outta you.
 

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@Willstyles logic is all wrong here. You are under the presumption that the father or parents are at fault here for not instilling certain behaviors or principles in the daughter. That's a strong statement to make without any proof or real reasoning. It does not have to be that he never taught her certain things or didn't reinforce it strong enough, kids are kids and whatever reason they go wayward at times may not necessarily be indicative of how competent the parents are at raising them. Also people can be taught and conditioned by beatings and pain. That's the whole philosophy behind operant conditioning and punishment. That being said I'm always torn by these videos because as a person that was beat as a kid I don't see this as being an issue but as an adult I can't really support why it's ok to beat children since it really is a form of abuse.
Agreed

I always find it funny that the people on here without kids are always preaching their IDEALOGICAL philosophies about how to perfectly raise kids.

When one actually deals with raising a child the options of discipline seem to become more wide.
As with everything else in life it's much more difficult actually living it then just talking about it.

With all that said the father DID go to far, I could never see myself recording beating my child and hitting them in the face.
But the whole "spanking is abuse" clan on here can :camby: IMO
 

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This ass whipping should of been off camera, and the face blows was a bit much. But I don't fault this father for laying the belt on her, because these young folks these days need more than a belt. She 13 and acting up, who knows what she was doing to lead her dad to beat her with no caution of her face. A lecture followed by a swift belt to the ass needs to be done during certain circumstances. And you think these hoes listen to their mama let alone another a woman is a lie. Both parents have to set rules and discipline as see fit.

I know nikkaz that grew up getting beat with belts but still ended up in jail. How much did those beatings work? :pachaha:
 

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Ayo fam, don't sleep. Deez cripp nikkaz can get busy.

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:wtf: Did this nikka really do a breaststroke with flippers out of a hoveround and finish it off with a twerk snippet?
 

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I know nikkaz that grew up getting beat with belts but still ended up in jail. How much did those beatings work? :pachaha:

I know nikkaz who NEVER got beat and they parents always tried time out, talking to them, and taking away material things.

But they STILL ended up in Jail.

It's no one way to raise a child, but whoopings from my parents damn sure set me straight from time to time.
 

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Giving your daughter some licks while telling her to stop being "stank" is a great way to generate a plethora of other insecurities and issues that she will carry on for the rest of her life and replicate in other, ugly ways. That girls needs a grown black woman to sit her down and talk to her about self-respect, attention and love. Forcing a child to be a certain way never works; you need to help them understand the options they have, the consequences, and allow them to identify on their own the type of individual they want to be and how they ideally want to carry themselves throughout their life.


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that was hard to watch, only because he was hitting her in the face with the belt YIKES! Im all for whoopings, but come on, belt to the face? Even I didnt get that, and I got epic beatings.
 

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Nah man. I can't cosign this. He was hitting her all in the face hard as hell with the belt. That wasn't discipline, that was disgusting.:stopitslime:

It also seemed like he just turned on the camera to beat her to "show the other girls out there". I thought she was twerking on camera and came in and whipped her ass or something.
 

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This ass whipping should of been off camera, and the face blows was a bit much. But I don't fault this father for laying the belt on her, because these young folks these days need more than a belt. She 13 and acting up, who knows what she was doing to lead her dad to beat her with no caution of her face. A lecture followed by a swift belt to the ass needs to be done during certain circumstances. And you think these hoes listen to their mama let alone another a woman is a lie. Both parents have to set rules and discipline as see fit.

Thank you, finally a female that gets it. Although the licks to the face, I'm sure he didn't mean, I think the way he was swingin the belt made it look like he was aiming for the face, but he was giving her body blows and when she went to block them, he tried to go above her blocks, but these idiots wish to make it seem like he was trying to abuse her. :beli:

This is the type of discipline that these kids need out here, because when you show them early on, there are consequences for your actions, especially young girls, who are treated like "Angels" in society, then you set in their mind the "Think Twice" mode as I call it.....or the :ufdup: mode.....
 
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