This intern in my hospital has a crush on me and I don't know what to do.

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Ok. Here's the problem. A month ago, I was starting my first day as a volunteer in the hospital. I couldnt find the Emergency room anywhere that I was supposed to be in due to the massive size of the hospital. All of a sudden, this white chick notices that I looked lost and led me straight to the ER. She's a nursing intern so she's going to be around for a few months. Her best friend is also in the ER as an intern and we all got to know each other since we were all going to the same room section. Over the course of the month, the girl suddenly starts talking to me more often about my love life(I'm single and never had a gf). I was quite curious why she asked such a question and she seemed shy about it in her tone. That same day when I was about to go home for the day, her best friend told me that she overheard my conversation with the girl and knew the reason why she asked me love questions. Her best friend told me that the girl apparently has a crush on me and has had so since the day we met for the first time in the hospital. I didn't know to respond to this since I never had a girl have feelings for me before.

Another problem is the age difference. The girl is 25 and I'm 20. Plus I never had much of an interest towards white girls. Although I do admit that she is has a pretty decent face and has a pretty good body with medium t*ts and bubbly ass(I would say about a 7.5/10 overall). She has a pretty down to earth and has a fun personality(she's a complete health nut) . I thought we were very good friends but I didn't know that she developed feelings along the way.

Her best friend knows that I never thought much of women and asks me to give the girl a chance at a relationship. But I'm not sure if I like her as more than a friend or if I'm doing this out of pity. What should I do?
 

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If you're not sure if you like her like her as more than a friend, then you more than likely don't. If you liked her, you would know. lol
 

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If you're not sure if you like her like her as more than a friend, then you more than likely don't. If you liked her, you would know. lol

The problem is that ever since the revelation from her friend. I've started developing feelings back too. I've been looking at her more physically now.

Before the conversation happened, I only looked at her as a cool friend who happened to be attractive. But now I feel like I actually want to give her a chance that she wants.
 

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Ok. Here's the problem. A month ago, I was starting my first day as a volunteer in the hospital. I couldnt find the Emergency room anywhere that I was supposed to be in due to the massive size of the hospital. All of a sudden, this white chick notices that I looked lost and led me straight to the ER. She's a nursing intern so she's going to be around for a few months. Her best friend is also in the ER as an intern and we all got to know each other since we were all going to the same room section. Over the course of the month, the girl suddenly starts talking to me more often about my love life(I'm single and never had a gf). I was quite curious why she asked such a question and she seemed shy about it in her tone. That same day when I was about to go home for the day, her best friend told me that she overheard my conversation with the girl and knew the reason why she asked me love questions. Her best friend told me that the girl apparently has a crush on me and has had so since the day we met for the first time in the hospital. I didn't know to respond to this since I never had a girl have feelings for me before.

Another problem is the age difference. The girl is 25 and I'm 20. Plus I never had much of an interest towards white girls. Although I do admit that she is has a pretty decent face and has a pretty good body with medium t*ts and bubbly ass(I would say about a 7.5/10 overall). She has a pretty down to earth and has a fun personality(she's a complete health nut) . I thought we were very good friends but I didn't know that she developed feelings along the way.

Her best friend knows that I never thought much of women and asks me to give the girl a chance at a relationship. But I'm not sure if I like her as more than a friend or if I'm doing this out of pity. What should I do?
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Seems like you're worrying over shyt that isn't important...

Her age compared to yours... Unimportant

Her having a crush on you... Unimportant

Her being white... Unimportant.

Don't force yourself to like or dislike her. Just continue doing you and see where it goes. Continue being friends, if you go out together then still continue being friends. Think of it friends hanging out... She sounds like a cool chick and if she puts that puss down on you (I'm assuming you're a virgin) that 7.5 might go up a lil


If she's trying to force you into a relationship, then worry. But if you guys are just hanging out then there's no problem. If you not feeling it then you're not feeling it. If you don't want to lead her on then don't


But all your reasons for not dating her is bogus. Some women/people grow on you. Most of the women I've dated I didn't even like at first... The same with most of my friends.


Only thing you should worry about is shytting where you eat... Which shouldn't be a big deal if both y'all just interns. Just keep the drama away from the work.
 

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Ok. Here's the problem. A month ago, I was starting my first day as a volunteer in the hospital. I couldnt find the Emergency room anywhere that I was supposed to be in due to the massive size of the hospital. All of a sudden, this white chick notices that I looked lost and led me straight to the ER. She's a nursing intern so she's going to be around for a few months. Her best friend is also in the ER as an intern and we all got to know each other since we were all going to the same room section. Over the course of the month, the girl suddenly starts talking to me more often about my love life(I'm single and never had a gf). I was quite curious why she asked such a question and she seemed shy about it in her tone. That same day when I was about to go home for the day, her best friend told me that she overheard my conversation with the girl and knew the reason why she asked me love questions. Her best friend told me that the girl apparently has a crush on me and has had so since the day we met for the first time in the hospital. I didn't know to respond to this since I never had a girl have feelings for me before.

Another problem is the age difference. The girl is 25 and I'm 20. Plus I never had much of an interest towards white girls. Although I do admit that she is has a pretty decent face and has a pretty good body with medium t*ts and bubbly ass(I would say about a 7.5/10 overall). She has a pretty down to earth and has a fun personality(she's a complete health nut) . I thought we were very good friends but I didn't know that she developed feelings along the way.

Her best friend knows that I never thought much of women and asks me to give the girl a chance at a relationship. But I'm not sure if I like her as more than a friend or if I'm doing this out of pity. What should I do?
You like men? :ld:
 

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Ok. Here's the problem. A month ago, I was starting my first day as a volunteer in the hospital. I couldnt find the Emergency room anywhere that I was supposed to be in due to the massive size of the hospital. All of a sudden, this white chick notices that I looked lost and led me straight to the ER. She's a nursing intern so she's going to be around for a few months. Her best friend is also in the ER as an intern and we all got to know each other since we were all going to the same room section. Over the course of the month, the girl suddenly starts talking to me more often about my love life(I'm single and never had a gf). I

Her best friend knows that I never thought much of women and asks me to give the girl a chance at a relationship. But I'm not sure if I like her as more than a friend or if I'm doing this out of pity. What should I do?

For the brehs, who don't know, OP is Indian, and apparently one of them swagless Indians. :mjlol:

Lol at being 20 and never having a girlfriend. :mjlol:

Always cockblocking nikkas from trying to holla at Indian bytches. I see you playboi :leostare:


Based on your last statement, you might be gay.:patrice:


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