I know what you mean, but I have been socialized to have my life together at an early age, it's partially my friend group, and a personal drive for better. One of them women I'm interested in is an MD-PhD candidate at MIT and she's only 22, why not act as her peer. The rest of my group of associates are college graduates or near college graduates, most have cars, a few own houses, no one lives with their parents and the only one who isn't starting a career is in law school while bartending on the side.
I don't accept personal failure.
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