It is what it is. The disappointing thing about all of this is the male reaction and inability to connect the dots. Yes, given half the opportunity many of
"your queez" would jump ship and leave you for men they consider more valuable: both for better economic and social prospects, and (though they often try to conceal this) to achieve that
something they ultimately covet above all else.
And here's the rub:
they're completely within their right; they owe you no loyalty, especially when they cannot see the upside in you. Other groups of men (one group in particular) possess far more resources than you do and exhibit far more often and consistently (in their eyes) those characteristics which render them more dependable, and in short, more of a man.
What now? Are you going to cry? moan? perhaps beg for the
queenz not to leave? Or maybe the solution is to get in your feelings and cuss them out. To create thread after thread and waste your Latin and Saxon talking about them. Yes that should do it... It doesn't matter and it only makes you look stupid. Some of the chicks in here get a kick out of watching and trolling you emotional fools. I told you not to waste resources (wife, father children) with bedwenches. That's all. No need to constantly discuss them, antagonize them, harass them. These women are thinking 24/7 about white boys, white picket fences and mixed babies; why are they in your mind so much? I'll tell you why. The more black women gain access to non-black men and pursue that opportunity, the more it threatens the only thing that makes the collective of black men somewhat appealing: the veneer of virility.
One last thing: you're trying to shame and silence these women; the former is a waste of time, and the latter is a detriment to you. When you silence such people, you're not really reforming their mindset; they're just become more difficult to identify. You need to be able to identify the cancer. Let them talk, let them act this mindset; you watch in silence. There's a few chicks in this very board like this, and you guys always try to shut them down. Be quiet and observe. Do you guys not realise how low a good portion of
your women think of you? Really?
Some of you will dislike what I said because there was no candy with the medicine. It is what it is.
Shout out to those who don't shy away from reality; I rock with you heavy.