I agree with you to some degree but like
@BrehWyatt said it's all relative. If $10K aint nothing to him then let it be. I'm sure millionaires drop $10K on random side chicks all the time. Not saying doggy is a millionaire but people will do that they can afford to do. Is he raising the bar and expectations while enabling these chicks? Yes. But again let the breh cook.
I recently had a similar issue with a chick i met. Mind you this was in a 3rd world country where the littlest amount of money to us (again, relative/perspective) is a boat load of money to them. But i was in Ivory Coast kicking it with my homeboy and this chick I was fukking and a few other people. While we were fooling around I accidentally dropped her phone. Her phone was already all fukked up anyway with all kinds of cracks all over the screen but the drop added another tiny crack to the screen. They were like "
it's no big deal everyone's phone over there is jacked up" but I was like "n
o biggie babe, i'll just buy you another phone. Besides that shyt old as fukk. " (Samsung Galaxy S2 from 2010).
My homeboy who was with us laughed at it at first but later on he sorta mentioned something to the effect that he didnt want me to get her a phone. A few weeks later I came back to the U.S. and hollered at him on whatsApp asking him for his sister's address in NY. His sister was supposed to go to Ivory COast the next week so i wanted to send her the gift replacement phone and she could in turn deliver it to the chick i promised the phone to. And homie AGAIN made it clear to me that he didnt not approve of me buying this chick phone because it's "a lot of money blah blah blah and she may lose it anyway since shes always losing her phones blah blah blah and that if it's a brand new phone she might sell it and take the money instead blah blah blah."
Dude was coming up with every reason he could think of to dissuade me from giving her the phone. I'm like...breh why do you care so much about something that has nothing to do with you other than you're the one who introduced me to the brawd ?
But there is also the other angle
@nikkahs B. Wildin brought up which never crossed my mind but males all the sense in the world if homei is really a drug dealer. See Below Spoiler.