This is why class separation is so vital in the Black community

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not every brother is your brother

Human beings and animals will dumb themselves down to fit in. Pick the right partner and pick the right environment and then after that hope that they aren’t trying to catch bodies just so they can be down. Make sure you read to your kids and give them a passion for reading to develop those frontal lobes


Group behavior influences individual behavior
 

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I think he means he doesn’t want his kids growing up around kids like in the video.

Some people strive to not have their children grow up in areas that are prone to violence and degeneracy, not poor per se.
This degenerate behavior has been making it's way into suburban areas for years now. You even have people on this site who take pride in it, "Don't sleep, we get it poppin out here too".

The only way this changes is if Black Men who are tired of this, are going to have to get their hands dirty.
 

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I mean.....I see it your way, but at the same time your kid could be the positive influence. The kid that says "see you at school tomorrow" "I got a comic I want to show you, I'll bring it to school" That kid could come to your crib with your son and see another side of life, how shyts supposed to be and want that more than the current way he's living. Want to be around more people like you and your kid.

It could be all for nothing. My boy dropped out of high school. He wasn't too popular and didn't really give a shyt about his classes and his parents didn't push him. He is white and Filipino, 2 parent household, grew up in the same house forever, wasn't poor. We started separating in middle school because I was popular and active in sports and extracurriculars, so naturally I met and knew more people. By the time we got to high school I told him to play football, he played for a year, but other than football we didn't really kick it. He never found a set group of friends, or anything else, so failing classes, no friends around sophomore year he began not showing up for weeks or months. And I'd go to his house before school and be like "let's go" that worked a few times. Junior year he was taking night school, well supposed to. And it was easy shyt, just do the assignments and turn in the work. They gave him the book to take home so he could do them all at home and just turn them in and pass, he didn't want to do that. It was easy work too, I told him I'll do it and he just has to turn it in and he was still like "nah"

Senior year, graduation, our boy that went to a different school was graduating the same day I was/we were and he was like "I'm not going to your graduation, I'm going to Darius'" and I'm like ":wtf: we homies, how you not gonna be there for me?" He went off "I'm supposed to be up there with you! You left me!"

It was rough...we went at it for a minute. I tried to be the good influence but it didn't pan out with him. I was already mentoring and had some young bucks doing their thing. He came to my crib maybe 5-6 years later talking bout "I always knew you'd make it!" He still wasn't doin shyt. He's gotta kid now. I haven't talked to him in probably a decade.
 

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You nikkas never post anything positive about black people
It's crazy. shyt ain't adding up at all
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Fair point, but if you look at the body of the first post you can see it's a little more nuanced than that.
-Anti-Intellectualism and being ignorant on purpose. Fun fact. NERD comes from The Brainerd Academy. An African American founded school for higher learning.
-Bad Home life, if being at home sucks, you’re gonna be outside a lot.
-Predators, some youth take on an aggressive sometimes sociopathic persona to cope with being a victim to someone close to them
-Resource scarcity
-Letting slow sociopaths dictate Blackness, Masculinity, Feminity and other social norms while also them becoming an in group that people perceive is the largest in the community. If there is are multiple in-groups to choose from, kids are less likely to try to be down to fit in with just one group. This is influenced also by non blacks who expect black kids to act a certain way

Edit: I meant to reply to the question you asked about the conflation
 
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Y'all are so obsessed w/ denigrating your brother/sisters, thinking if I seperate, maybe I will be saved.

PS: Nothing is going to save you outside of tearing down oppressive systems, not trying to remake them within your community.
 

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I mean.....I see it your way, but at the same time your kid could be the positive influence. The kid that says "see you at school tomorrow" "I got a comic I want to show you, I'll bring it to school" That kid could come to your crib with your son and see another side of life, how shyts supposed to be and want that more than the current way he's living. Want to be around more people like you and your kid.

It could be all for nothing. My boy dropped out of high school. He wasn't too popular and didn't really give a shyt about his classes and his parents didn't push him. He is white and Filipino, 2 parent household, grew up in the same house forever, wasn't poor. We started separating in middle school because I was popular and active in sports and extracurriculars, so naturally I met and knew more people. By the time we got to high school I told him to play football, he played for a year, but other than football we didn't really kick it. He never found a set group of friends, or anything else, so failing classes, no friends around sophomore year he began not showing up for weeks or months. And I'd go to his house before school and be like "let's go" that worked a few times. Junior year he was taking night school, well supposed to. And it was easy shyt, just do the assignments and turn in the work. They gave him the book to take home so he could do them all at home and just turn them in and pass, he didn't want to do that. It was easy work too, I told him I'll do it and he just has to turn it in and he was still like "nah"

Senior year, graduation, our boy that went to a different school was graduating the same day I was/we were and he was like "I'm not going to your graduation, I'm going to Darius'" and I'm like ":wtf: we homies, how you not gonna be there for me?" He went off "I'm supposed to be up there with you! You left me!"

It was rough...we went at it for a minute. I tried to be the good influence but it didn't pan out with him. I was already mentoring and had some young bucks doing their thing. He came to my crib maybe 5-6 years later talking bout "I always knew you'd make it!" He still wasn't doin shyt. He's gotta kid now. I haven't talked to him in probably a decade.
:childplease: Fukk outta here with this after school special script.
 

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There's been threads recently of teens who live in gated community doing dumb things as well.
 
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This is just ignorance. It goes beyond class. Micheal Irvin son is on the same wave and his pops is a multimillionaire.

Some black people are addicted to ignorance. Those types I avoid at all costs. I don’t want to be around them and don’t want my seeds going to school with them.

I look down on people that play this music in front of their kids or in car.
 
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