This is why Fathers and Father Figures are so important in the Black Community
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What aspects of the Black community do men control besides sports?
Church?
Academia?
Politics?
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Lol what kind of silly question is this breh ?
She does it the same way any woman does when she wants control:biased family court , weaponized tears, Color Purple monologue + 911 on speed dial.
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
Barbershops
Boxing Gyms
Black Churches
Youth Centers
Motorcycle clubs
That's not mentioning the ability to make black male groups. What is stopping us from doing that??
Y'all are just so self defeated and think black men have nothing when that's not true. As long as you don't stick your dikk in crazy which results in CS/Alimony/Jail you good. There are a lot of childless black men living great.
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My man said barbershops
Boxing is a sport I said non sports.
Motorcycle clubs are mostly 40 plus year old men with bad beer bellies hanging out with one another. The fukk does that influence?
The Black church is run by women as well
Interesting you didn't say the household. Which proves my point. None of that shyt matters unless we control that. Which for the most part we don't.
Moving?Sadly we're moving far away from Male Authority and leadership in the Black Community. Black Women are in charge and are the ultimate authority..
The Men still take the brunt of the blame but that's just how things go in Matriarchy.
It's a full fledged matriachy.
Save yourself and your loved ones.
Intentionally or unintentionally missing the point?Lol what kind of silly question is this breh ?
biased family court , weaponized tears, Color Purple monologue + 911 on speed dial.
Sure there should be certain differences but I think we get so caught up in that that we lose sight of the fact that the need the same shyt.
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
My man said barbershops
Boxing is a sport I said non sports.
Motorcycle clubs are mostly 40 plus year old men with bad beer bellies hanging out with one another. The fukk does that influence?
The Black church is run by women as well
Interesting you didn't say the household. Which proves my point. None of that shyt matters unless we control that. Which for the most part we don't.
Breh having a self defeatist attitude is not healthy and will not lead to improvement. I gave you great outlets, even boxing gyms being a big one because of all the black men in that space. My boxing coach does more than boxing and is always at some sort of event. What about Barbershops? My barber is always giving young men life advice. What about the youth centers? Those black men are always giving life advice. Also you are 100% wrong on the motorcycle clubs because I've been around a few and the black men in those clubs are anywhere from mid 20s to late 60s. Even if it was all 50 year old black men, they all have great life experience. Unless you suggest otherwise?
You really don't think black men don't run the household? Let me ask you this, what black men do you hang around or associate with? I think it's best to start there.
Thank you. No way we are moving respectably as black men if women who dont allow men to see their kids are the overwhelming majority. Personally i dont think thats the case,and many of you a parroting talking points from the outspoken, excuse making, lowest common denominator. Granted the lowest common denominator are doing alot of fukking and impregnating. But either way,im tired of respectable well to do people being aaaallll in the business of aint shyt people. That is not your jurisdiction.
The majority of black women would not keep their child from a black man whos making effort to be involved. Plus if you made any woman that upset that she wont let you see your child. Theres possibly a good chance you werent moving respectably as a man and violated. So ultimately manhood still plays a factor in fatherhood. Because how you move as a man can determine how you hurt your significant other,or if your family dissolves.
And ill take it a step further. What im saying is even if black men werent being allowed in our childrens lives at a 80% clip,Men create the culture. So we could be denied involvement and be deadbeats, But if black men were out here collectively moving in a serious manner, INDEPENDENT of our women and children. Focused on building and fixing ourselves and the community,what do you think the women and children would be doing?
Do you honestly believe our women would completely deviate and go rogue? And be out here acting like complete fools while we moved righteously and respectably
?No,they would follow the culture and example they see us setting as men. Black women cannot control what we choose to do and how we choose to operate as grown men
The most ironic thing about this thread is NONE of these nikkas finger pointing at black women are married at all and most of these nikkas are all baby daddies themselves. Men that don't want to lead are blaming women for begrudgingly stepping into those roles they've vacated.
Well i agree with this. But your basically saying black men have CHOSEN to be submissive or been programmed to be submissive,whichever. I still dont see how thats the fault of black women. Especially considering weve been operating under a culture of hypermasculinity/machismo. Not to mention under the programming of a pimp culture within hiphop. Black me can get reeeeal masculine and non submissive when it come to getting p*ssy,conning our women,sneaking around,running a roster,abandoning our family for some new cat. So what your saying i view as an excuse. You need to stop parroting talking points of the lowest common demoninator who really arent hat interested in being family men or being involved. They are the ones pushing that "bu bu but she wont let me see them
" narrative. Your not in that demographic or apart of that jurisdiction. Stop being tbeir spokesperson
Same shyt like love? Then yes