This is why I seriously want to marry a chick and maintain a real family with her, despite my trust issues. I wanna be around my kids as much as possible to know what's going on with them, and under the law that pretty much means I have to be living with the mother on good terms in order for that to happen. I can't be like the majority of nikkas on here who are gonna end up randomly having a kid with a chick they don't like, paying child support and only seeing the kid once a week at best, while not knowing what exactly the kid is going through daily.
A lot of these single mothers ain't shyt, and will let ANY man suddenly spend more time with her kids than the actual father, as long as she finds him attractive. Meanwhile the boyfriend is abusing/molesting the kid, and the real father has no clue because he barely sees the kid in the first place and can't notice anything different about the kid. The mother doesn't notice, either....or maybe she does, and chooses to keep her mouth shut because she's afraid of her new man leaving her