Watch it, you're falling into your own trap by using that word "insensitive" ....
She's a white woman. You're asking her to abstract from her own experience and intellectually conceptualize the legitimacy of *your* subjective experience in America as a black man.,,,
But wait - isn't she asking Chuck to do the same thing for her? So why be mad at it?
Like I said, it's just a woman being a woman. How a woman is treated varies widely depending on how beautiful people think she is. And how she acts varies widely on how beautiful she herself thinks she is. It's a big thing for them .....
I'm willing to bet that a lot of black women (if they were watching) were made uncomfortable by Chuck making jokes about fat girls. They just wouldn't stupidly compare it to the Sterling issue because they have a unique understanding of it being black themselves.