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No.
Men are less enablers than women. We don't coddle like women.

We nurture and teach just fine.

I think I have to agree with this. My evidence is purely anecdotal but I know a single dad who is raising 3 girls and they are very different than most little girls. I’d say exceptional in every way. They don’t whine for shyt. They accept one “No” as the final answer from their dad. They are emotionally intelligent, mature and ambitious af. They speak with a lot of clarity and conviction. They are only 11, 9 and 6. The 11 year old knows a lot about computers, electronics and cars like her daddy. They are incredibly well rounded. Very interesting to observe them vs girls being raised by single mothers.

One of my good friends was raised by a single father. Her mom died when she was 2 and she’s a tomboy but has her shyt together and no relationship problems with her husband. It’s like they never fight, they talk that shyt out once and that topic is never brought up again. I’d like to think I’m a well-rounded woman but even I hit the :wtf: when I see how rational and constructive their arguments are. Observing their happy, content marriage made me come to realize how society lets us women run around emotionally abusive and unaccountable for our actions and words and how manipulative we are to men and even children. I do think kids fare better with single fathers than single mothers. Honestly, if the courts really understood this, a lot of women wouldn’t have sole custody of their kids or any custody at all. This isn’t to exclude men from their problems tho. I’m just going based on your reply.
 

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I have a baby around this age so this is even funnier to me. Kids at that age are so finicky that when you have them in the situation in the video, just leave them. They’ll start acting up eventually and you will have to deal with them then. You cant always play with the kid. Overstimulation is a thing and I’m sure that woman is all up in the kids face doing shyt.

that and women are more nurturing than men. She should understand that and STFU.
 

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bytches may agree with you but I know statistically single parent households with fathers are ran better than single households with mothers.
Dad does well after the kids turn 12 because he gives them wisdom and guidance and some independence at the same time.
 
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You gotta make it look cute when you and the baby are chillin and the woman will leave you alone.
I'll let the baby fall asleep on me, while i snooze a little. If she walks in a disturbs that picture she'd have to be particularly cold hearted.
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If you do something else besides nap, just let the baby participate and she's usually alright with it too.
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but don't feel pressured to make every interaction some educational, teach the baby numbers and letters type stuff.

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Letting a baby sleep like that seems dangerous as fukk.


What if you hear a loud noise, wake up, and break the baby’s neck, or drop it on the floor???
 

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Letting a baby sleep like that seems dangerous as fukk.


What if you hear a loud noise, wake up, and break the baby’s neck, or drop it on the floor???
We just napping not sleeping. I'm aware of the baby the whole time. Got through her entire toddler years without anything happening. also where do you think we are, on the edge of a cliff? She'd just fall onto the bed
 

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Time and place for everything..we dont know what the father was doing before and honestly it doesnt matter. If she wants to teach the baby Russian then she should do it and the father can do it on his time when he wants to.

They both were chilling and she didnt like that and she took control of the situation
 

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And putting a iPad in front of a baby isnt right. Studies have shown that they cause addictions at a young age. The baby didnt seem bored he was just relaxing
 

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Dad does well after the kids turn 12 because he gives them wisdom and guidance and some independence at the same time.
I may be getting the end of a convo but to me that would be a nightmare.

the issue with females raising boys alone is that they don’t understand the subtle nuance of and differences between men and women. Its through a women’s pow.

So you’re cool being handed a preteen boy w/ a fully formed personality ( fostered by a women)?

Two parent home is ideal but a boys needs his dad from the jump.

Are your kids in a single parent home?
 
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