He is saying that it is the wrong word for what people are trying to convey, because a phobia infers that there is a persistent
fear of a situation, activity or a thing. So homophobia would imply a fear of the homos. If a person does not actually fear them then that is probably not the correct word.
Hate is probably not the correct word either, because that is actually a feeling of intense dislike. In my experiences straight Black men and women don't typically hate the gays, because there is not usually some intense feeling of dislike.
I think the word that people are looking for indifference as one extreme, which is basically lacking interest; or disdain is the other extreme, which is basically a rejection of something.
The problem as I see it is that in liberal America there is this concept of activism, which basically pushes people into buckets of either being for something or against something. The typical fallback for most Black men (Black women too) is probably indifference, which should be good enough because it means that they don't care. However this bullshyt activism shyt pushed by White people will not accept indifference and is pushing more people into the camp of disdain. The oddest thing is that the disdain is not aimed at the homos, because almost all Black people acknowledge that they have a right to do what they want to do. The disdain seems to be for liberal activism pushed by White people, which continually tries to dehumanize Black men that don't agree with the dumb shyt pushed by White liberals. So in a nutshell the liberal bullshyt homo agenda is the true problem, because most Black men (and Black women) default position is indifference.
? ASK HER THAT shyt.
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