i aint taking about taking care of your elderly parents when they're sick
did you feel an obligation to buy a house for your dad? or was he man enough to provide that for himself?
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i aint taking about taking care of your elderly parents when they're sick
did you feel an obligation to buy a house for your dad? or was he man enough to provide that for himself?
These nikkas look up to men that was raised in single parent homes and think it is normal. Buying your mom a house is cool but you should not be her meal ticket to that house,
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nikka it's every childs responsibility to take care of his parents in the event they're unable to take care of themselves. Not just you're mother. That's been the norm in cultures all over this planet since the beginning of time. Maybe I was raised different from y'all nikkas, but the one thing I saw my pops do is reach out and help his family. shyt, this nikka helped bring mad dudes from Jamaica to the US, paid they're plane ticket and helped get them on their feet so they can in return send for their family.
Y'all just some straight fukk nikkas
have your oppinion breh, but dont say stupid shet like a man has a mangina because he takes care of his mother in her 60s... its non-sensical...
he's taking on more burden than you think he should, yet he's less of a man
how do you even define manhood.
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nikka, D Rose makes 20m a year from the league alone. He could take care of his moms from the interest on 1/5 of his money. You're finding fault with a multi millionaire taking his own money and helping his moms out?
nikka it's every childs responsibility to take care of his parents in the event they're unable to take care of themselves. Not just you're mother. That's been the norm in cultures all over this planet since the beginning of time. Maybe I was raised different from y'all nikkas, but the one thing I saw my pops do is reach out and help his family. shyt, this nikka helped bring mad dudes from Jamaica to the US, paid they're plane ticket and helped get them on their feet so they can in return send for their family.
Y'all just some straight fukk nikkas
what does your father helping his brethren network over into the US have to do with this particular conversation?
do you feel the need to buy ya moms a house and pay her bills, or has your father already secured that position; it's a simple fukking point.
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Most of these nikkas hatred for black women runs so deep, that even taking care of their own mother is ridiculous.
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nikka the point is my parents taught me take care of FAMILY. The same way I saw my pops take care of his mother as soon as he got on is the same way I'd help my moms.
Like I keep saying, you're finding fault with a man who makings probably 3-4 million dollars a month taking care of his mother like you think she's some groupie running game on him.
Sierra Mist
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Yes, you are supposed to take care of your parents when they can no longer take care of themselves. That's a strawman. No one is saying otherwise.have your oppinion breh, but dont say stupid shet like a man has a mangina because he takes care of his mother in her 60s... its non-sensical...
he's taking on more burden than you think he should, yet he's less of a man
how do you even define manhood.
I can't speak for anyone else but what I'm saying is that the FATHER should subsidized the MOTHER'S lifestyle.... not the son. Don't use your children as lottery tickets. There is a difference between checking up on your parents and helping them out when they need it as opposed to providing your parents a new lifestyle. People are bringing up retirement homes and shyt when the parents being discussed are still able to go to the club and ball out of control because their son gave them 20k to fukk around with for a few weekends. That's not the same as taking care of your parents when they are too old to take care of themselves.
If your parents did the right thing they were established before you were even born. THEY pass wealth down to the CHILD. The child then uses those resources to get a leg up on the world and compete and the resources grow generation after generation.
The system people in this thread are cosigning is parents having babies without resources and then after the child "makes it" the child then provides an entirely new lifestyle for the parents... The husband should provide the lifestyle for the wife.... That is NOT the son's job.
Are you getting this? People are getting mixed up because of the general term "take care of."
man, i can't even bother with these dudes, they always try to change the argument. instead of focusing on this sick oedipus shyt we've got going on in the black community, where young black boys are forced into a position where they have to provide for momma. they want to turn into not caring for your elderly/sick parents like ANYONE has said that's the problem.
Born2BKing
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Of course, she is a black woman breh. This dudes would shyt on their on mama over a pawg. The self hate on here is REAL.
Sierra Mist
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You guys and your strawman arguments. it has nothing to do with "black women" Your mother could be purple. THE FATHER IS STILL THE ONE WHO SHOULD ESTABLISH HER LIFESTYLE... NOT HER SON.
You guys are like drones who are incapable of actually reading what the fukk is said so instead you draw your own conclusions and put words in everyones mouth.
Show of hands, has ANYONE said that you aren't supposed to help your parents out?
You guys are like drones who are incapable of actually reading what the fukk is said so instead you draw your own conclusions and put words in everyones mouth.
Show of hands, has ANYONE said that you aren't supposed to help your parents out?
My issue is with the mindset of banking on your child to get you out of poverty. This happens to often in the hood.
and for every son that goes pro, there's tens of thousands who end up selling drugs and robbing instead
