This Nikka Tommy Sotomayor Needs his own thread

[Just like bruddas]

i got all day fellows

 

[floe]

I like speaking with u sir have more pos rep, i agree but the reason why i call women queens are because they are, they gave us birth, they build us. I never said it was cool or ok for people to act like they dont have any sense, but i give all women that title as a sign of respect. Younger women i speak with i call them that, the love it, thats building. I mean compared to what some young brehs out on the street call them, a positive title does wonders.

Thanks (I'm a girl btw)

I understand what you mean, I've been called a bytch so much that it doesn't even bother me anymore. You can't overcompensate for our negative image by calling us queens because the truth is a lot of us ain't nowhere near there yet.

Like when you're raising a child, sometimes you have to be tough to steer them in the right direction.

I get you though. A lot of our problems stem from low self worth BUT we can't lower the bar to save feelings.

 

[marcuz]

Thanks (I'm a girl btw)

I understand what you mean, I've been called a bytch so much that it doesn't even bother me anymore. You can't overcompensate for our negative image by calling us queens because the truth is a lot of us ain't nowhere near there yet.

gospel

 

[Just like bruddas]

Thanks (I'm a girl btw)

I understand what you mean, I've been called a bytch so much that it doesn't even bother me anymore. You can't overcompensate for our negative image by calling us queens because the truth is a lot of us ain't nowhere near there yet.

Like when you're raising a child, sometimes you have to be tough to steer them in the right direction.

I get you though. A lot of our problems stem from low self worth BUT we can't lower the bar to save feelings.

youre a girl

lol trust me hun im not lowering the bar, i just give people a chance, but its up to the person to take it and run with it. Some do, some dont, but everything that i have said in my posts i have done in the community and im seeing results, good results. Out of 36 kids at our center 29 of them have gotten jobs and still go to school. I think one of them was accepted into pretty good college.

Guys here can say all they want bout my way of combating ignorance but im seeing first hand results of my work and others that decided to do more then just talk.

 

[Born2BKing]

youre a girl

lol trust me hun im not lowering the bar, i just give people a chance, but its up to the person to take it and run with it. Some do, some dont, but everything that i have said in my posts i have done in the community and im seeing results, good results. Out of 36 kids at our center 29 of them have gotten jobs and still go to school. I think one of them was accepted into pretty good college.

Guys here can say all they want bout my way of combating ignorance but im seeing first hand results of my work and others that decided to do more then just talk.

 

[floe]

youre a girl

lol trust me hun im not lowering the bar, i just give people a chance, but its up to the person to take it and run with it. Some do, some dont, but everything that i have said in my posts i have done in the community and im seeing results, good results. Out of 36 kids at our center 29 of them have gotten jobs and still go to school. I think one of them was accepted into pretty good college.

Guys here can say all they want bout my way of combating ignorance but im seeing first hand results of my work and others that decided to do more then just talk.

@ the bolded

I like that!

I'm seeing where you're coming from now. Most people that ain't shyt know they aren't so there's no point telling them. Good work letting people know there's options.

See I thought you were just cosigning buffoonery. Props to you

 

[Chris.B]

I cant fuck with black chicks

 

[floe]

I cant fuck with black chicks

meh.

 

[Chris.B]

meh.

Funny to me black women are the LEAST most desiring women in America.
You would think that alone with help hem straight up their attitudes but no...they still want to get in your face and act like b!tches

 

[Just like bruddas]

Also let me clear up something. My man focus is the youth, the adults are secondary cause lets be real, once a adult is set into their ways then its children are always open for change. The kids are the ones that will grow and change the future. I mean its very heart breaking seeing what these kids go through just to stay on the right path. Avoiding drugs, gangs, underage sex etc. Some adults are even pushing these kids into the wrong path just to benefit their own needs.

its seeing both men and women do stupid shyt that involved their kids, like the video that was posted it, but u know what though, someone decided that person wasnt worth the time and energy to guide when she was younger and now u have the end product. Now the baby is in trouble and the cycle repeats it self.
@marcuz u dont gotta drop videos to prove your point breh I see it all the time outside my home, I see it more then u probably. I drive to newark and i see women six months pregnant walking with another child waiting on the bus. No more then 23 years old, gave out free condoms at the corners just to see a 15 year old child ask for one or hear a grown as man say he dont use them

Seeing my lil brehs raise their hands when I ask them how many of them have lost someone to gang violence...all of them...every person in that center raised their hand including me. These same women you guys talk bout like dogs werent born that, someone failed to act and now we suffer from it. But yet u and the Nigerian wanna post videos of the shyt just to prove a point. fukk a video breh, we in it.

We can fight bout whos way is the best or we can work together, @floe I agree with 110% not all women deserve that title so i find other ways build, but i believe everyone deserve a chance.

Later on this week im gonna talk with the lil brehs bout the jail system and how for profit jails work and how they must take responsible for their own lives

 

[Just like bruddas]

its what i do, its what we all should do

 

[Sierra Mist]

Killawill you will ignore me because you know I'm right and you're wrong. I know you can't go to toe with me intellectually but lmao.

 

[floe]

Funny to me black women are the LEAST most desiring women in America.
You would think that alone with help hem straight up their attitudes but no...they still want to get in your face and act like b!tches

date who you want. This isn't about that.

 

[Just like bruddas]

@ the bolded

I like that!

I'm seeing where you're coming from now. Most people that ain't shyt know they aren't so there's no point telling them. Good work letting people know there's options.

See I thought you were just cosigning buffoonery. Props to you

nah beloved never that, when the lil brehs say the word bytch or hoe or any curse word they giving me 30 push ups cuz now their arms are almost bigger then mine

all i said was just because a person decides to be stupid or rachet we shouldnt automatic abandon them and look down at them. We should help build their knowledge and hope its changes them...God knows i was one of them people.

 

[floe]

Also let me clear up something. My man focus is the youth, the adults are secondary cause lets be real, once a adult is set into their ways then its children are always open for change. The kids are the ones that will grow and change the future. I mean its very heart breaking seeing what these kids go through just to stay on the right path. Avoiding drugs, gangs, underage sex etc. Some adults are even pushing these kids into the wrong path just to benefit their own needs.

its seeing both men and women do stupid shyt that involved their kids, like the video that was posted it, but u know what though, someone decided that person wasnt worth the time and energy to guide when she was younger and now u have the end product. Now the baby is in trouble and the cycle repeats it self.
@marcuz u dont gotta drop videos to prove your point breh I see it all the time outside my home, I see it more then u probably. I drive to newark and i see women six months pregnant walking with another child waiting on the bus. No more then 23 years old, gave out free condoms at the corners just to see a 15 year old child ask for one or hear a grown as man say he dont use them

Seeing my lil brehs raise their hands when I ask them how many of them have lost someone to gang violence...all of them...every person in that center raised their hand including me. These same women you guys talk bout like dogs werent born that, someone failed to act and now we suffer from it. But yet u and the Nigerian wanna post videos of the shyt just to prove a point. fukk a video breh, we in it.

We can fight bout whos way is the best or we can work together, @floe I agree with 110% not all women deserve that title so i find other ways build, but i believe everyone deserve a chance.

Later on this week im gonna talk with the lil brehs bout the jail system and how for profit jails work and how they must take responsible for their own lives

I agree with the youth thing. I've always wanted to get into counselling or something like that. My dad works at a guidance center, it's more career related and focuses on options after dropping out of school.

Yeah, that sex ed thing is a major problem. We can't keep acting like teens aren't having sex, at the very least show them how to use a condom and explain the realities. It's like people don't care about STD's.

@ bolded

Big props to you on that, we lose too many boys to that shyt. The after-effects of being caught in the penal system are no joke! It's designed specifically to keep them coming back.