This Nikka Tommy Sotomayor Needs his own thread

[screenname01]

I've always had money, and I don't need anyone here to stand up for me. I'm not Tommy Sotomayor, I don't need to project my pain on anyone, or have a bunch of butthurt nikkas to for me

so the answer is no the money havent transferred from the white side to the black side yet. ok. dont you got a community dog wash or mayonnaise sandwich picnic youre supposed to be at?

 

[DaChampIsHere]

So black women ain't shyt/are ruining the black community, but when dudes date white they catch flack too.

Y'all some chronic masturbators.

 

[Ginger]

jennybell aint told no lies. but jennybell the people wanna know, how do you feel about a african married to a big ol fat po white bytch speaking on behalf of black women?

 

[606onit]

Dark skin men are not ugly at all. What I'm saying is that light skin men are secretly preferred over dark skin men. All this "I only like dark skin men" stuff you hear is false.

Links to these secret desires?
How to boost one's self esteem: 101.

 

[Ginger]

Links to these secret desires?
How to boost one's self esteem: 101.

Don't have links just experience from being a woman and being surrounded by black women my whole life. You don't have to believe me but I'm not lying. Living in a white dominated society has affected black women more than you realize.

 

[Sierra Mist]

So black women ain't shyt/are ruining the black community, but when dudes date white they catch flack too.

Y'all some chronic masturbators.

Real talk. That doesn't make any sense at all. Dudes complaining about women they don't want not picking them?

 

[DrunkenNovice]

The guy is funny, but if you listen to a few shows its obvious hes getting his Limbaugh on.

 

[606onit]

Living in a white dominated society has affected black women more than you realize.

I see 3x more Black women w/ straight/flank perm/weave/wig in their hair compared to Black women w/ groomed natural hair......

Trust me, as much SARGE, TARIQ, and TOMMY as I've listened to - I KNOW THEIR MINDSTATE.

 

[Ginger]

I see 3x more Black women w/ straight/flank perm/weave/wig in their hair compared to Black women w/ groomed natural hair......

Trust me, as much SARGE, TARIQ, and TOMMY as I've listened to - I KNOW THEIR MINDSTATE.

Then you would know that most really prefer light skin too.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Dark skin men are not ugly at all. What I'm saying is that light skin men are secretly preferred over dark skin men. All this "I only like dark skin men" stuff you hear is false.

I guess I'm just in a different demographic.Most of the black women I know who prefer dark skinned men, actually put it into action.They date nothing but dark skinned dudes.



Malik Yoba and Morris Chestnut turned a lot of females out.Women are influenced by social media like that.The trend in the black community for the last 20 years has been to prop up the chocolate brother.Is there some flimsy, fraudulent females out there who're just doing it for a fad, or to be on some fake ass Erykah Badu/India Arie/Afrocentric shyt? Hell yeah it is......but that's how a lot of females operate.They want the hot commodity.Most relationships never go beyond a superficial level anyways.To a lot of females, a man is just an accessory.No different than that matching purse or those matching shoes.It's all about what concept they choose for their lives/ how they want to present themselves to the public.Basically, it's vain conquest.


The archetype for most black females is the tall dark skinned dude with smooth skin(nh), a degree, and a lil bit of thug in him.Been that way for the last 20 years.

 

[Ginger]

I guess I'm just in a different demographic.Most of the black women I know who prefer dark skinned men, actually put it into action.They date nothing but dark skinned dudes.



Malik Yoba and Morris Chestnut turned a lot of females out.Women are influenced by social media like that.The trend in the black community for the last 20 years has been to prop up the chocolate brother.Is there some flimsy, fraudulent females out there who're just doing it for a fad, or to be on some fake ass Erykah Badu/India Arie/Afrocentric shyt? Hell yeah it is......but that's how a lot of females operate.They want the hot commodity.Most relationships never go beyond a superficial level anyways.To a lot of females, a man is just an accessory.No different than that matching purse or those matching shoes.It's all about what concept they choose for their lives/ how they want to present themselves to the public.Basically, it's vain conquest.


The archetype for most black females is the tall dark skinned dude with smooth skin(nh), a degree, and a lil bit of thug in him.Been that way for the last 20 years.

The archetype thing is false. Don't be fooled. Most white men don't want them and they believe that light skin brothers won't give them a chance. Many date dark because they feel they have no choice.

The only men who pride themselves in the "Wesley Snipes made us look cool" are men who are also insecure as well and need validation for their skin tone.

There is a reason most black women straighten their hair, wear weave, always claim to be Native American and all that other stuff. The reason is that deep down inside they don't really like being black. That is the reason they always praise people with "good hair" light eyes and light skin. This affects how they feel about men too but they only admit it behind close girls to their friends and fam.

 

[Sierra Mist]

JennyBell is on fire! I could retire from this shyt. ON POINT all throughout this thread.

 

[Still Benefited]

I guess I'm just in a different demographic.Most of the black women I know who prefer dark skinned men, actually put it into action.They date nothing but dark skinned dudes.



Malik Yoba and Morris Chestnut turned a lot of females out.Women are influenced by social media like that.The trend in the black community for the last 20 years has been to prop up the chocolate brother.Is there some flimsy, fraudulent females out there who're just doing it for a fad, or to be on some fake ass Erykah Badu/India Arie/Afrocentric shyt? Hell yeah it is......but that's how a lot of females operate.They want the hot commodity.Most relationships never go beyond a superficial level anyways.To a lot of females, a man is just an accessory.No different than that matching purse or those matching shoes.It's all about what concept they choose for their lives/ how they want to present themselves to the public.Basically, it's vain conquest.


The archetype for most black females is the tall dark skinned dude with smooth skin(nh), a degree, and a lil bit of thug in him.Been that way for the last 20 years.

Basically people look too deep into this shyt and make it more than it is.....Let's just agree its stupid to say "I don't like darkskin" "I don't like lightskin"...becuz if u black 9 times outta 10 its overstatement not meant to be taken literally.....I say I don't like yellow women but all I'm sayin is I don't prefer women that are extra lightskin...u a damn fool if u think I'm sayin it ain't no pale black chicks out there that pull it off and wouldn't fuk with.....its probaly just a bad choice of words and we should just start sayin "we prefer darkskin" or "we prefer lightskin" instead of puttn one shade down to express or preference of the other....cuz at the end of the day if u attracted to other black people its a 99% chance u gon run into sumbody of the shade u claim to "not like" that u are attracted too.



Same shyt with the hair, ain't nuthin but a fad thing not a self hate thing majority of the time at all....when Halle and Jada made short hair popular black women did that,when Janet had the braids in poetic justice black women did that,when Rhianna and Nicki do ridiculous colors black women do that,When Alicia had braids black women did that...so cut the bullshyt,if u wanna come down on black women for sumthin we can talk about the constant trend jumping and follower mentality many of us men and women possess....get off the self hate b/s....if Rhianna or Beyonce or sum new popular black chick come out and start rockin a fro tommorow black women will be doin that...it"ll be "girl why ya hair so straight"...breakin down the physcological complexity of sheepish mentalitys in america in 2012..its real simple

 

[Still Benefited]

And I'm brown skinned by the way,what u gon say I don't understand the pain of either side....maybe I don't all the bytchez luv us.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Basically people look too deep into this shyt and make it more than it is.....Let's just agree its stupid to say "I don't like darkskin" "I don't like lightskin"...becuz if u black 9 times outta 10 its overstatement not meant to be taken literally.....I say I don't like yellow women but all I'm sayin is I don't prefer women that are extra lightskin...u a damn fool if u think I'm sayin it ain't no pale black chicks out there that pull it off and wouldn't fuk with.....its probaly just a bad choice of words and we should just start sayin "we prefer darkskin" or "we prefer lightskin" instead of puttn one shade down to express or preference of the other....cuz at the end of the day if u attracted to other black people its a 99% chance u gon run into sumbody of the shade u claim to "not like" that u are attracted too.



Same shyt with the hair, ain't nuthin but a fad thing not a self hate thing majority of the time at all....when Halle and Jada made short hair popular black women did that,when Janet had the braids in poetic justice black women did that,when Rhianna and Nicki do ridiculous colors black women do that,When Alicia had braids black women did that...so cut the bullshyt,if u wanna come down on black women for sumthin we can talk about the constant trend jumping and follower mentality many of us men and women possess....get off the self hate b/s....if Rhianna or Beyonce or sum new popular black chick come out and start rockin a fro tommorow black women will be doin that...it"ll be "girl why ya hair so straight"...breakin down the physcological complexity of sheepish mentalitys in america in 2012..its real simple

You filled in a lot of the over looked/ grey areas with that post.