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Men are judged by what we do not how we look. All the women I know that like lightskin men don't hide it. Women have never been told to hide their preferences.
 

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How is this oppression, literally everything you listed that black women are supposedly doing are things they are doing completely by choiceq

If America wasn't a white dominated society where whites are the majority and rule and if slavery and years of oppression never happened, then women wouldn't be doing any of this stuff. They wouldn't hate themselves. History.
 

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There is definitely a conscious effort. It might not look that way to you because you are a man but every month when that natural hair starts to grow out, women use all types of negative words to describe their real natural hair. they hate it. They want to get rid of it as quick as they can because it makes them look more black.


Well there is a definition for it its called naps,why not describe it as such....if u believe there's a concious effort for black women trying to be white then u must believe if black women could wave a magic wand and be white instead of black they would do it:wtb:


It doesn't bug black people that they been diagnosin us with the same mental disorder and causes of those disorders that they diagnosed the slaves and blacks from the 1900's with?..don't get me wrong I think it all goes back to that as the root but u can't put they self hate and trauma on to us.

For example let's say your father comes back from vietnam and all the pain,drugs and murder got him traumatized and he's paranoid all the time now and raises u to make sure all your windows are locked,to check under your bed before you go to sleep,don't trust asians....u can't be diagnosed with the same mental disorder of PTS that he had....Unless u are overboard with it your just "careful and racist" u can't blame vietnam when YOU grow up and teach your kid the same thing bcuz that's what your father taught u, if your son doesn't adopt your racist views he's just "careful" your son can't blame vietnam or be diagnosed with post tramatic stress for his carefulness.....I mean u can but u can't,its the root but its not why YOUR doin it or why YOUR kid is doin it...from generation to generation things change:manny: the grandson is not his grandfather

The more black folks try to give these pretty answers to the dianne sawyers and solidead obriens about why we do the shyt we do the more we will continue to hear these weak answers,and then y'all got the nerve to wonder why black people still look at themselves as victims...we gotta stop lettin each other spread these "pretty answers and excuses" on from generation to generation....black folks always tryna have a intellectual answer or excuse for sum bullshyt that we do...that at the end of the day is just sum trivial bullshyt that we do....I don't need a powerful explanation to why I sag or where it came from,I don't need a explanation as why we crack jokes about our skin colors,its just jokes that we came up doin that may have self hate at the ROOT but that's not why we do it....knowin it hurts sum peoples feelings we should just agree we shouldn't do it without knowin sumbodys background or mental state and that be that.

All these thoughts and pretty excuses and tv specials over petty bullshyt that has nuthing to do with what's holding black folks back annoys me....maybe this shyt will be more important when black people have the power to hire or fire other black people of different shades or with nappy hair.:snoop;
 

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If America wasn't a white dominated society where whites are the majority and rule and if slavery and years of oppression never happened, then women wouldn't be doing any of this stuff. They wouldn't hate themselves. History.
Then why are women in Africa & the Caribbean wearing weaves and bleaching their skin, decades after their countries gained independence from white imperialism
 

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The idea that all or most black women prefer light skinned men is a joke. Matter of fact, a lot of light skinned black women will tell you that they prefer a dark skinned guy over a light skinned guy, and it's not about them being scared that they can't attract other light skinned guys. Any dark skinned black man who has it going on can cosign how routine it is to attract light skinned black women. Opposites attract. Some darker skinned black women do have a complexion complex tho. They're mostly the ones who caught up in the whole "good hair-bad hair" BS. In my experience it's attractive dark skinned black women who harbor the most self hate.
 

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The idea that all or most black women prefer light skinned men is a joke. Matter of fact, a lot of light skinned black women will tell you that they prefer a dark skinned guy over a light skinned guy, and it's not about them being scared that they can't attract other light skinned guys. Any dark skinned black man who has it going on can cosign how routine it is to attract light skinned black women. Opposites attract. Some darker skinned black women do have a complexion complex tho. They're mostly the ones who caught up in the whole "good hair-bad hair" BS. In my experience it's attractive dark skinned black women who harbor the most self hate.

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The idea that all or most black women prefer light skinned men is a joke. Matter of fact, a lot of light skinned black women will tell you that they prefer a dark skinned guy over a light skinned guy, and it's not about them being scared that they can't attract other light skinned guys. Any dark skinned black man who has it going on can cosign how routine it is to attract light skinned black women. Opposites attract. Some darker skinned black women do have a complexion complex tho. They're mostly the ones who caught up in the whole "good hair-bad hair" BS. In my experience it's attractive dark skinned black women who harbor the most self hate.

I bet this is another girls alias.
 

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O I get it, so if folks agree with you then they are good with women, and if not they are bad. Good strategy
I never said that, this is something that you pulled from your ass. My previous comment was based on a lot of what I see posted here, not just this particular topic or thread. I lot of the anger towards women here is based on the fact that posters don't get/have them.
 
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