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This video personaifies exactly why I stepped down from this supposed "gender war".


AdviseShow is a good dude and due to his little "beef" with TJ I found it appropriate to post it here. Bashing women isn't going to help you get women.
 
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This video personaifies exactly why I stepped down from this supposed "gender war".
The negative effects of listening to male/female bashing videos - YouTube

AdviseShow is a good dude and due to his little "beef" with TJ I found it appropriate to post it here. Bashing women isn't going to help you get women.
What's wrong with being single? Marriage and a relationship are hard work. I've never heard someone say being single took work. It's smooth and easy to be single. You hear how this man talks? At the end of the day you want somebody? No I don't want somebody I want my ideal perfect woman and if I can't have that I'd rather have nothing than have "somebody."
 

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I'm ashamed to have followed this little "beef" (I watches the entire back and forth)

Yea, no more vids

Dude makes some good points, so I tolerate the disrespect, but he went too far

Something is wrong with dude

Was he initially right about the blogger? Yes, she was uncomfortably gusting over white men, in the first video. But, dude takes it too far and makes things personal. And she had me upset cus she took the bait and proved him right.

Hopefully she doesn't respond, but, I'll never know.

SMH dude says he's duome, bur, the video says part 1
 

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I'm ashamed to have followed this little "beef" (I watches the entire back and forth)

Yea, no more vids

Dude makes some good points, so I tolerate the disrespect, but he went too far

Something is wrong with dude

Was he initially right about the blogger? Yes, she was uncomfortably gusting over white men, in the first video. But, dude takes it too far and makes things personal. And she had me upset cus she took the bait and proved him right.

Hopefully she doesn't respond, but, I'll never know.

SMH dude says he's duome, bur, the video says part 1
Who is that Mia chick? She's cute. He beefs with everyone on there. Even if you give him constructive criticism or simply say he's wrong about certain points he'll curse you out and block you. He's done it to me 3 times already. Dude is too emotional.
Tell that to Joe Budden.

--> aq out <--
lmao. Joe Budden defies all laws of everything though. :deadmanny:
 

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Who is that Mia chick? She's cute. He beefs with everyone on there. Even if you give him constructive criticism or simply say he's wrong about certain points he'll curse you out and block you. He's done it to me 3 times already. Dude is too emotional.

Like always; he was goin' in on black women. It was one of those vids where; he plays a vid (this one was 12 mins) and comments at the end.



(Above vid started it all)

In this particular vid; she was gonna on about how white men secretly desire black women (IMO, the vid is creepy :weirdo:--she looks like she was either; gotta cry or have an orgasm). He goes in on her and makes fun of her (mixed) child :smh: (he went to her Facebook). She was married to a white man (his child, too).

She responds (about 20 mins), with a friend, and says it's a old vid, gets at him for makin' fun of her child, threatens him (subliminally), calls him a self-hater. She suggests she challenged Tommy to debate one-on-one and he declined.



He emails her, then, she responds in another long video, sayin' the same thing. She is engaged to a black man, now, has 2 kids. Threatens him, says she has proof he's on the downlow (apparently his gay lover inboxed her).



He then, responds with the vid in Post #584 .

They both have good points;

Tommy is rude, disrespectful, makes things personal--unnecessarily.​

And I agree, with Tommy, that;

black women shouldn't be seeking the approval of white men (when the approval of black men means nothing to them)

black women subscribe to a standard of beauty that they will never measure up to and she doesn't have any business being scantily clad (her modeling pics and visible cleavage) all over Facebook and YouTube--yes, I have higher standards for married/engaged women (ex. I'm not feeling Beyonce's GQ cover, but, wouldn't care if it was any other single/non-married woman).

But, as it is with dude; he's self centered and childish. I just watch his videos for a contrary perspective. But, I'm not for the personal attacks, that go on YouTube.

:guilty: And Miah was, basically, makin' all of points, Tommy has ever made, in the vids I've seen. I was happy she was making great points, but, disappointed how much she fit he's generalized archetype of black women.
 
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Sorry guys but I would :cape: .
 

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Sorry guys but I would :cape: .

you'd cape a dark skinned chick with a receding hairline, weave, colored contacts, two kids by a white man, and a horrible disposition towards black men? :leon: you've become a shell of your former self
 

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Sorry guys but I would :cape: .
nobody saying she's ugly i'm just saying a woman on her level is far from uncommon. the thing about any average woman is if you glamour her up a bit she's gonna be boosted to slightly above average.
 
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