This White Woman Spittin Facts

[5thbornpowerseed]

It’s not a double standard. Men don’t carry the baby. Men don’t go through the physical and mental trauma that is caused by carrying and delivering that baby. They don’t deal with the post partrum depression and other issues that arise as a result of delivering this baby.

The fact that you thought this dumb bytch has a point means you might be slow and delayed.

False equivalency...

Its about choosing to be a parent...
A woman can choose not to go through all that you described...

A man should have a similar choice, to decide if he wants to be a parent...

 

[Taadow]

Men do have all the say, it's quite simple, if a man does not deposit his sperm into a woman's body, she will not be impregnated by that man.

Men do not have ALL the say -

1. if a man thinketh he is depositing his sperm in a condom, he doesn’t know it is going into a woman’s body
2. Woman have alternative ways of obtaining a man’s semen beside him depositing it inside her.
3. If a man is told a woman is using birth control and she is not, she is exercising her “say”.

Women absolutely do have ”say” in how they conceive

 

[KidJSoul]

‘Double standard.’ No, it’s called a different standard. Men and women are not the same. The same way men are allowed to be sluts but women get ostracised for being sluts. We are not the same.

I do agree that men should have a say though.

At least you're being consistent

One day y'all gonna realize that women as a whole will always put themselves first. Whether it's fair or not don't mean shyt. Women would never be okay with men opting out of child support because it puts them at a disadvantage. It's really that simple.

This too

 

[Matt504]

Men do not have ALL the say -

1. if a man thinketh he is depositing his sperm in a condom, he doesn’t know it is going into a woman’s body
2. Woman have alternative ways of obtaining a man’s semen beside him depositing it inside her.
3. If a man is told a woman is using birth control and she is not, she is exercising her “say”.

Women absolutely do have ”say” in how they conceive

Notice how you have to use edge cases to make your point?

"what if the condom breaks"
"what if she fishes the condom out of the trash and uses a turkey baster"
"what if she lies about being on birth control"

 

[Taadow]

Notice how you have to use edge cases to make your point?

"what if the condom breaks"
"what if she fishes the condom out of the trash and uses a turkey baster"
"what if she lies about being on birth control"

1. I didn’t say condom “breaks”

Now - notice how you can’t fade my point?
Women do have “say” in how (and who) gets them pregnant

 

[Matt504]

1. I didn’t say condom “breaks”

Now - notice how you can’t fade my point?
Women do have “say” in how (and who) gets them pregnant

I don't have to fade your point because you don't have one.

If a man doesn't want to impregnate a woman, he simply doesn't deposit his sperm into her body. There's nothing a woman can say or do to change his mind if he doesn't want to impregnate her, that's his choice. When men inseminate women, those men also give women the power to make the decision of whether or not she wants to continue the pregnancy, it's no longer in his hands.

Yes, women do have a say in who they allow to have sex with them, I agree.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I don't have to fade your point because you don't have one.

If a man doesn't want to impregnate a woman, he simply doesn't deposit his sperm into her body. There's nothing a woman can say or do to change his mind if he doesn't want to impregnate her, that's his choice. When men inseminate women, those men also give women the power to make the decision of whether or not she wants to continue the pregnancy, it's no longer in his hands.

Yes, women do have a say in who they allow to have sex with them, I agree.

Brehs act like they’re being forced to have sex

 

[Cat piss martini]

She spit nothing but gospel
but lets talk about how if DNA
testing was mandatory at the birth.



these hoes would move alot different out chea.

 

[Taadow]

There's nothing a woman can say or do to change his mind if he doesn't want to impregnate her, that's his choice.

This is not totally true, though…and we have ample proof of it.

There are thins a woman can say and do to be impregnated by a man she wants.

 

[Eternally Jaded]

No she is not spitting facts. The man doesn’t have to carry the kid, and be the 24/hr caretaker. All the man has to do legally is pay money. If the woman abandons her kid on someone’s doorstep, the father isn’t charged with child abandonment. If you don’t want a child, stop going raw. Stop messing with women you don’t want to be tied to for life. It’s that simple.

Not really taking a side in this situation since my mantra has always been the bottom-end of your post but you do see that this can be attributed to "that's just the way it is" correct?

And in that case, there's many things that seem patently unfair about the world yet can be handwaved away with a "that's just the way it is" ya dig?

Men getting paid more than women - "that's just the way it is"
Men holding more positions of power than women - "that's just the way it is"

Expectations work both ways, and both bind and free each and every one of us, in ways we can see and be blind to.

 

[Matt504]

This is not totally true, though…and we have ample proof of it.

There are thins a woman can say and do to be impregnated by a man she wants.

Sure, a woman can tell a man to cum in her. That is a request that still has to be granted or denied by the man she's having sex with.

 

[Still Benefited]

" Who say he going through a thang, when y'all ain't never lied
I gotta baby, but his mama act like he ain't mine
Wicked women, using children to live on
Wanna hurt and try to hate, 'cause she know the thrill is gone "

Poking a hole in condoms would be considered rape now I believe. Coli lawyers say this breaks consent in that Joe Budden thread. So the good news is the woman will go to jail. Which will give you the chance to have full custody.


And thats the real problem. Men should just automatically get primary custody if they have the most money,most stable environment. They will go as far as to give a broke woman custody. Then tell the man he has to pay 30K a month for child support. Instead of just making the kids go with the father,and allowing visitation to the mother.



If I was a judge I would give custody to whichever parent doesnt need child support,where applicable.

 

[Bumblebreh]

If a man signs his rights over. Yup. Women sign their rights over and are completely off the hook. How does that make any logical sense? Lol. Most of y’all nikkas talkin on here ain’t speaking from experience or having been thru the court system but that’s the ongoing trend wit this goofy ass site.

A child did not choose to be born into that situation. He or she did not choose its parents, so to say that a man should waiver his rights is unfair on the child. That red pill rhetoric is dangerous.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Not really taking a side in this situation since my mantra has always been the bottom-end of your post but you do see that this can be attributed to "that's just the way it is" correct?

And in that case, there's many things that seem patently unfair about the world yet can be handwaved away with a "that's just the way it is" ya dig?

Men getting paid more than women - "that's just the way it is"
Men holding more positions of power than women - "that's just the way it is"

Expectations work both ways, and both bind and free each and every one of us, in ways we can see and be blind to.

Pregnancy is something that is completely avoidable unless the woman is raped.

A woman doesn’t choose to get paid less than men. She does choose to have unprotected sex. The potential consequence is a child that the man may not want to provide for. Even if he does, she is still spending her money and time taking care of the child.

The man has to pay if the woman keeps the child, and chooses to take him to court. Plenty of women don’t bother taking the man to court. Personally, I don’t see how someone could know they have a child in the world, and not want to be involved. It speaks to character. A child isn’t just about money, and a lot of brehs think it is, as evident in the Nick Cannon threads.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

Then find a woman who will let you use a condom. Y’all acting like women are raping you.

Both parties know the risk. Her risk is having to care for a child, his risk is having to pay. Is he getting up in the middle of the night to feed the kid, or taking time off work for maternity leave? And is she never paying for anything? The custodial parent pays more anyway unless it’s a wealthy man.

I can see you are not able to have this conversation. Nevermind my initial quote.