Hence the

reaction whenever women complain about men not checking for them.
There is an ABUNDANCE of male attention out there. Any woman can get a boring simp who will make her his #1 priority and bend over backwards to make her happy.
The problem is that they're disgusted by those men because they have no edge to them. They can't tell stories on their wedding day about how "we had our ups and downs and a few times we thought we wouldn't make it, but our love was too strong š„¹" type shyt when the ngga will do whatever he needs to do immediately to avoid friction in the relationship.
Those men are boring also because there was no equity put into them. Women want to feel like they broke a stallion down and made him docile and friendly to her and her alone. When the ngga shows up already compliant there's no sense of ownership there. Theres no feeling of having "crafted" your relationship and having used your love to heal the hurt within him or whatever. The simp appeals to their narcissism but not in the way they would like. He had no fight in him to begin with. There was never any risk that the ngga would cheat, leave her because he got bored, or raise his voice at her and punch the wall like other men do.