Thought I had women figured out, nope.

[Music Fiend]

Brehs, so theres been a chick I've been tryna smash/cuff who lives down the street.

Years ago, one night after a date she ran off at the mouth about something dumb and I went off on her and made her cry.

She obviously avoided me after and spazzed but it was cool, kept it movin & she moved.

She came back a couple years later and was receptive to my touching and kissing. But never would follow thru to come over or meet up. So I would keep it movin with other females. She would send selfies on snapchat tho in the AM a lot so I told her to kill that ish.

So a few months back, I ran into her and her friends while I had another chick (badder chick) on my arm and she seemed 100% cool with it. Next morning I wake up to selfies of her snapchat again and I basically ask her why is she sending me snapchats.

I see her last month at a kickback, once again she's letting me cop a feel and we're flirting.

So today, I hit her up trying to set something up. She didnt give a direct answer but acted like she was game. I asked her if she was in or not. she hits me back 3 hrs later, with just a no. I ended up inviting another chick over and smashing.

Obviously she's not feeling the boy, so why does she keep tryna flirt and send me snaps in the morn or whatever. Either that or she thinks I'ma player.

 

[Cat piss martini]

you ignore broads like that.....
in the event you get her over again
butt ass naked with two of her finger
tucked off in her......86 her ass and tell
her that youre not with the games.
youre golden with her after that.

 

[bassedk02]

She gets off on that power she has over you, all she has to do is flirt a little and she's got you on her leash she probably clowning on you with her friends or the nikka she's fukkin now

 

[Music Fiend]

you ignore broads like that.....
in the event you get her over again
butt ass naked with two of her finger
tucked off in her......86 her ass and tell
her that youre not with the games.
youre golden with her after that.

Yeah bro. I guess I thought I deserved it for raging at her years ago.

But she always ends up around a similar circle. Everytime it ends up the same way.

So I just keep it moving, and assume shes not down. Until I start getting random snapchats from her in the AM.

Maybe she's just jealous or tryna keep me around or maybe shes thinks Im tryna smash and dash. Hell, maybe she's just getting a kick out of it cuz I told her off before and gave her the scissors.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

She gets off on that power she has over you, all she has to do is flirt a little and she's got you on her leash she probably clowning on you with her friends or the nikka she's fukkin now

What does she have to clown him about? TS is smashing other girls, isn't spending money on her (from what I can tell), and has at least kissed her/copped a feel which is a lot more than we can say for most guys in this situation. Even if she is playing games, I don't see what she would be clowning him about or how TS is losing here

 

[Music Fiend]

She gets off on that power she has over you, all she has to do is flirt a little and she's got you on her leash she probably clowning on you with her friends or the nikka she's fukkin now

We don't talk often enough for their to be any real power. I'm not p*ssy whipped by any means. We just flirt, but its not like she doesnt know I pull women. Not to mention, lookswise, I'm a catch for her. She aint all that. We never flirt when sober, we only flirt when not sober and we're at a party or whatever.

 

[Lil Gangsta]

I would go wit she feelin u but thinks/knows u a player and doesnt wanna be jus a new notch in ur belt

Since u made a thread about it i guess u kinda feelin shorty too?

 

[Music Fiend]

What does she have to clown him about? TS is smashing other girls, isn't spending money on her (from what I can tell), and has at least kissed her/copped a feel which is a lot more than we can say for most guys in this situation. Even if she is playing games, I don't see what she would be clowning him about or how TS is losing here

The only thing I can say is there are times where I've kissed her while drunk and it felt like she wasnt tryna kiss me back. Which was 100% fine to me, I can take the L, I just get thrown off when she appears interested.

 

[PlainSight]

She's a tease . Some girls just do that shyt because they love the attention.

 

[Ricky Church]

I don't understand how some dude's just can't cut their "losses" and walk away instead of feeding into bytches that like playing games and wasting time. especially ones who they aren't smashing.

like what the fukk. seriously breh. help me understand. you weak minded simps get no fukking respect. pitiful...

 

[Music Fiend]

I would go wit she feelin u but thinks/knows u a player and doesnt wanna be jus a new notch in ur belt

Since u made a thread about it i guess u kinda feelin shorty too?

We've talked on and off for years. I dont even know at this point bruh. Every time I get a glimpse at her personality she ends up either giving a curve to prevent it from continuing or at the point where other women would be emotional she's tryna distance herself by joking. TO give a backstory, when we first tried to date, I was taking her on dates and what not but felt like she wasn't tryna open up so I kinda confronted her about it asked her whats the deal, she ontinuing to clown around and joke around. I went off cuz it wasn't like I was doing anything but showing her a good time. She called me an a$$hole. I basically .

A friend of hers then called me told me she'd been crying and hates me and doesnt wanna see me.

I wouldn't say I'm feeling her all like that, I'm just interested in getting to know her. But I can't even seem to do that. So I let it go, only for it to end back up in my face every few months. I try to be just friendly and we just end up flirting.

 

[HoloGraphic]

Brehs, so theres been a chick I've been tryna smash/cuff who lives down the street.

Years ago, one night after a date she ran off at the mouth about something dumb and I went off on her and made her cry.

She obviously avoided me after and spazzed but it was cool, kept it movin & she moved.

She came back a couple years later and was receptive to my touching and kissing. But never would follow thru to come over or meet up. So I would keep it movin with other females. She would send selfies on snapchat tho in the AM a lot so I told her to kill that ish.

So a few months back, I ran into her and her friends while I had another chick (badder chick) on my arm and she seemed 100% cool with it. Next morning I wake up to selfies of her snapchat again and I basically ask her why is she sending me snapchats.

I see her last month at a kickback, once again she's letting me cop a feel and we're flirting.

So today, I hit her up trying to set something up. She didnt give a direct answer but acted like she was game. I asked her if she was in or not. she hits me back 3 hrs later, with just a no. I ended up inviting another chick over and smashing.

Obviously she's not feeling the boy, so why does she keep tryna flirt and send me snaps in the morn or whatever. Either that or she thinks I'ma player.

She wants what she can't have, your full commitment.

 

[Music Fiend]

I don't understand how some dude's just can't cut their "losses" and walk away instead of feeding into bytches that like playing games and wasting time. especially ones who they aren't smashing.

like what the fukk. seriously breh. help me understand. you weak minded simps get no fukking respect. pitiful...

Breh, I'm pulling way more than you homie. I'm not tryna even pursue it anymore, I never really do. It ends up as we go out with friends have a good time. Other women are def priority. But I'm not gonna lie, when we go out with friends we have a blast, shes all happy and cool. The follow up is the issue. Not to mention, she doesn't really know how much I pull. Her friend who is my friend is the one who alludes to me being a hoe every blue moon jokingly in public, cuz she doesn't even know how I move, she just knows a few women I've bagged.

 

[HoloGraphic]

We don't talk often enough for their to be any real power. I'm not p*ssy whipped by any means. We just flirt, but its not like she doesnt know I pull women. Not to mention, lookswise, I'm a catch for her. She aint all that. We never flirt when sober, we only flirt when not sober and we're at a party or whatever.

You're out of her league and she knows it.

When your a ten and she's a seven she's gaming You.

She is trying to get you to invest in something long term.

It won't happen tho. You need alcohol to talk to her. She's not relationship material.

What your feeling now is simply her gaming you and your inexperience in the feeling I guess.

I think to you she's just a challenge to get in them jeans. She recognizes this and is playing hard to get cause she knows once you smash she's lost all leverage to get you into a relationship.

Your big decision here, your real issue is how to smash without committing. You can let her entice you into a relationship, but that won't end well.

You can boil her water, tease her, until the kettle boils over tho and you will get in them guts. But it's going to be back and forth from there to keep smashing. Not necessarily a bad thing if you like that type of entertainment. Just keep in mind the tennis match and plan several moves ahead.

 

[Music Fiend]

Your big decision here, your real issue is how to smash without committing. You can let her entice you into a relationship, but that won't end well.

You can boil her water, tease her, until the kettle boils over tho and you will get in them guts. But it's going to be back and forth from there to keep smashing. Not necessarily a bad thing if you like that type of entertainment. Just keep in mind the tennis match and plan several moves ahead.

Thats a dope outlook, never thought of it like that but that could def apply to this and other situations. Only thing I can say is I'm not a 10 maybe a 7.

She's prolly a 5 until recently shes been losing weight and is getting close to a 7. I'm not even sure if shes feeling me tho. She's never admitted it. And thats her leverage I suppose.

You could be right tho. But perhaps she just snt checking for the boy. Which is how I'm gonna look at it and just not entertain her at all anymore. Too old for that. I can't even recall her dating anyone since, so she could be really inexperienced.