Thought I had women figured out, nope.

[KravenMorehead™]

Some shyt ain't worth trying to understand. She probably don't even understand herself and here you are asking other nikkas about that stupid shyt. I mean that's me

 

[The 2020 New Member]

Brehs, so theres been a chick I've been tryna smash/cuff who lives down the street.

Years ago, one night after a date she ran off at the mouth about something dumb and I went off on her and made her cry.

She obviously avoided me after and spazzed but it was cool, kept it movin & she moved.

She came back a couple years later and was receptive to my touching and kissing. But never would follow thru to come over or meet up. So I would keep it movin with other females. She would send selfies on snapchat tho in the AM a lot so I told her to kill that ish.

So a few months back, I ran into her and her friends while I had another chick (badder chick) on my arm and she seemed 100% cool with it. Next morning I wake up to selfies of her snapchat again and I basically ask her why is she sending me snapchats.

I see her last month at a kickback, once again she's letting me cop a feel and we're flirting.

So today, I hit her up trying to set something up. She didnt give a direct answer but acted like she was game. I asked her if she was in or not. she hits me back 3 hrs later, with just a no. I ended up inviting another chick over and smashing.

Obviously she's not feeling the boy, so why does she keep tryna flirt and send me snaps in the morn or whatever. Either that or she thinks I'ma player.

She either loves you or thinks that she's in love with you. End of the day, right or wrong, you have something that she wants and she wants to make sure you don't forget her.

Forget her.

 

[HoloGraphic]

Thats a dope outlook, never thought of it like that but that could def apply to this and other situations. Only thing I can say is I'm not a 10 maybe a 7.

She's prolly a 5 until recently shes been losing weight and is getting close to a 7. I'm not even sure if shes feeling me tho. She's never admitted it. And thats her leverage I suppose.

You could be right tho. But perhaps she just snt checking for the boy. Which is how I'm gonna look at it and just not entertain her at all anymore. Too old for that. I can't even recall her dating anyone since, so she could be really inexperienced.

She's seeking your validation.

Your charisma is oozing off you into her. You can have her eating out of your hands if you play it right.

But I see your priorities are straight. You can take it from her breh.

 

[PlainSight]

Some shyt ain't worth trying to understand. She probably don't even understand herself and here you are asking other nikkas about that stupid shyt. I mean that's me

My dad always says to me "Women are to be loved, and not to be understood"

 

[KravenMorehead™]

My dad always says to me "Women are to be loved, and not to be understood"

See now that I disagree withI can't stand that quote

 

[bassedk02]

What does she have to clown him about? TS is smashing other girls, isn't spending money on her (from what I can tell), and has at least kissed her/copped a feel which is a lot more than we can say for most guys in this situation. Even if she is playing games, I don't see what she would be clowning him about or how TS is losing here

The fact that he's spending time worrying about her games is losing. The fact that he responds and acknowledges her in that way is losing. Relate the situation to work if you're getting 6 figures from a job would you even take a call from Chipotle if they were trying to hire? You spend money you make money, but you spend time that's it.

 

[Ricky Church]

Breh, I'm pulling way more than you homie. I'm not tryna even pursue it anymore, I never really do. It ends up as we go out with friends have a good time. Other women are def priority. But I'm not gonna lie, when we go out with friends we have a blast, shes all happy and cool. The follow up is the issue. Not to mention, she doesn't really know how much I pull. Her friend who is my friend is the one who alludes to me being a hoe every blue moon jokingly in public, cuz she doesn't even know how I move, she just knows a few women I've bagged.

do you, playboy.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

You weren't the only one receiving them AM snapchats

 

[Music Fiend]

The fact that he's spending time worrying about her games is losing. The fact that he responds and acknowledges her in that way is losing. Relate the situation to work if you're getting 6 figures from a job would you even take a call from Chipotle if they were trying to hire? You spend money you make money, but you spend time that's it.

Very true.

She's not a priority like I said. I just wanted to know for game purposes if the woman sounded interested or not. I waste time on those thoughts.

The hot and cold dealings of me tryna link up and then hitting me with a cold no 3 hrs later, blows my mind.

She couldnt possibly believe I'm on a leash because I dont pursue her as I've already mentioned. I go months without talking to her, we just end up around the same ppl. So thats not right, cuz I could give a damn what she does and I'm sure she knows it with how spotty our communication is. Maybe 3 times a year.

You weren't the only one receiving them AM snapchats

Exactly what I'm thinking. It was prolly a mass snapchat to all the dudes she might deal with. Half of the time I didnt even respond to em. BUt I will say when I told her to sotp sending me snapchats, they stopped coming. Until the day I ran into her at a bar, when I told her again to not send me snapchats. lol

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Very true.

I'm not spending much time on it. She's not a priority like I said. I just wanted to know for game purposes if the woman sounded interested or not. Mainly because I waste time on those thoughts.

The hot and cold dealings of me tryna link up and then hitting me with a cold no 3 hrs later, blows my mind. Yet be the same one tryna send me selfies before work after seeing me with another woman. It's one thing to be jealous, another to want me to know she's jealous. Either way I'm done dealing with the chick and will ignore her from now on.


Exactly what I'm thinking. It was prolly a mass snapchat to all the dudes she might deal with. Half of the time I didnt even respond to em. BUt I will say when I told her to sotp sending me snapchats, they stopped coming. Until the day I ran into her at a bar, when I told her again to not send me snapchats. lol

Yeah hoes be doing that mass snapchat shyt to make it look like they only sending shyt to you.

I just straight up asked a chick and she came clean about it. Now I just look and keep it moving

 

[Music Fiend]

Yeah hoes be doing that mass snapchat shyt to make it look like they only sending shyt to you.

I just straight up asked a chick and she came clean about it. Now I just look and keep it moving

It all makes sense now. I always tell her stop sending me mass snaps jokingly, but it was prolly right. Preciate the input homie. Thats exactly what it is. She prolly isnt feeling the boy then.


welp, can't catch em all.

 

[PlainSight]

See now that I disagree withI can't stand that quote

I didn't agree with it either, but it's something I remember a lot when these types of discussions come up. It's the only piece of advice he's ever given me about women. The only other advice he gave regarding women was "get a 6-pack", which admittedly, I should at least try to get one .

 

[bassedk02]

When it comes to game females generally make it easy for you to succeed if they're feeling you. Think back to your past successes and you'll notice a pattern, they're enthusiastic, laughing at jokes and shyt. 9/10 if a woman makes you work for it the p*ssy'll be wack.

 

[Turbulent]

We've talked on and off for years. I dont even know at this point bruh. Every time I get a glimpse at her personality she ends up either giving a curve to prevent it from continuing or at the point where other women would be emotional she's tryna distance herself by joking. TO give a backstory, when we first tried to date, I was taking her on dates and what not but felt like she wasn't tryna open up so I kinda confronted her about it asked her whats the deal, she ontinuing to clown around and joke around. I went off cuz it wasn't like I was doing anything but showing her a good time. She called me an a$$hole. I basically .

A friend of hers then called me told me she'd been crying and hates me and doesnt wanna see me.

I wouldn't say I'm feeling her all like that, I'm just interested in getting to know her. But I can't even seem to do that. So I let it go, only for it to end back up in my face every few months. I try to be just friendly and we just end up flirting.

just cut her off completely. don't entertain her, when she does the snapchat, don't reply, when you see her in person, be cordial but not an ounce more than necessary. she's feeding off the energy you're giving her. cut her off completely. after a while she'll either get the hint and stop bothering you OR she'll try to open up to you and stop fronting.

 

[Turbulent]

Very true.

She's not a priority like I said. I just wanted to know for game purposes if the woman sounded interested or not. I waste time on those thoughts.

The hot and cold dealings of me tryna link up and then hitting me with a cold no 3 hrs later, blows my mind.

She couldnt possibly believe I'm on a leash because I dont pursue her as I've already mentioned. I go months without talking to her, we just end up around the same ppl. So thats not right, cuz I could give a damn what she does and I'm sure she knows it with how spotty our communication is. Maybe 3 times a year.

just read that. makes more sense now. she feels like she took a big L when you snapped on her. i think she likes you but is not confident and thinks you're out of her league. so she goes back at you (the challenge) whenever her courage/confidence is up (hence, once every few months) but then chickens out cause "it's too good to be true".

my advice, stay away from her cause it'll be trouble down the line.