She’s hurting out here
Being a hood psychologist
Anytime u see a woman especially a single mom who just finished in a long time relationship on social media singing, dancing like this and putting on a smile for likes, just remember when the camera is off and her prospects of men isn’t there like she thought, her mind and heart is completely lonely…
Facts. Im ig friends with this super thick joint, every post is her at a party damn near every day of the week, doin her lil sorority strut, smiling laughing, ass out, etc
She swerved me bc she had a bf. But always posting the fake confident memes, the black woman is the prize, ‘if he not blah blah i don’t want it’. etc. I knew something was up I’d always reply to her stories ‘nah something is up ‘…’post some positivity your energy is off’
Eventually I must have triggered something—-may have been when I asked about her friend—— bc she ends up telling me she broke up with her bf and she starts sending me minute long voice notes, light crying, saying how hurt she feeling, how the partying is just trying to mask the pain. Starts asking me hella questions, ‘we should go out sometime’
Me:
Long story short nggas really need to stop goin for chicks’ BS on the net. They can be whatever they want online but irl women are delicate and insecure at their core. If they portray to be anything else it is a facade. And they do NOT want to be alone
Like every aspect of her life is so intricate and nuanced. Therapized women are impossible to connect with there’s a layer over them their stuck in their own head
