Tichina Arnold "What can black women do to stop the aiding in the emasculation of black men"

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Majority of Black Women don't think of themselves as Black People, they see themselves as a separate race from Black people. That fundamental difference is the reason why the community is in shambles

Reading about Black history is the last thing on their mind, because it doesn't concern them. They only care about Women history, specifically Feminist History

This is is why they don't bat an eye to disfigure themselves to look as non black as possible with perms, weaves, lighter makeup, and being submissive whenever they date non Black Men

On the list of their biggest concerns, competing with White Women to be the most sought after woman is more important than representing their Black culture

And the political ramifications of this will be...something else.

It's already happened, yall just got your heads in the sand and ignoring it on pirpose. Look a certain group co-opted BLM and diverted the funds. Ketanji Brown ruling against the lockheed martin victims. Go look up the stats on the black female judges in Texas, you'll notice something.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

I don’t (nor have I ever) cuss the men I date out so I feel like this doesn’t apply to me

I don’t emasculate anyone

Do black men even feel emasculated like that tho?(No I haven’t read this 12 page thread)

If i were a BM, I’d find this question emasculating tho lol

we're talking about politics and media. Look at the whole Ketanjo Brown story. Look at that article that was recently written by the new york post. Would they ever write articles like that about ANY other community?

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Twitter was the wrong place to post that.

Most people there hold deep seated resentment for men. Their mothers chose men who were emotionally unavailable, didn't want to be fathers or had otherwise awful taste in men. They then contribute to the cycle because the model of manhood the absorbed growing up was men who could never commit or do right by their mom. They grew up to be adults who choose those men while complaining about them. They don't know how to relate to people other than through complaints so they seek out drama so they have something to talk about.

Its plenty of good men out there who care and will do whatever it takes to make their partner and their kids happy, but these kind of women don't want those men because they're boring. They're short, they make too much money and it makes them feel insecure or hes too good looking and it makes them insecure or hes fat or hes too thin or he doesn't dress the way she wants. Any reason they can think of, they'll cling onto it and exaggerate it.

Then if that dude complains that he keeps getting rejected or can't find a woman who is serious and wants to have a real relationship, hes called entitled, or a woman hater and then made fun of or insulted by these women. Literally insulting the same thing they say they want.

She should have asked that question in person in black american neighborhoods. Twitter is also filled with radfems from Nigeria annd black radfems from Europe. Definetly the wrong place to ask that sort of question.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Man why are you taking those tweets seriously?

Before social media you would only hear discourse from journalists, scholars, sociologists, authors, activists or other roles that required a certain standard of intelligence. Idiots didn't have a platform. Now they do.

Stop looking to Twitter to inform your views on the state of Black consciousness. They're just random fools and lunatics with computers and smartphones.

I've never encountered these anti black male women in real life and I'm sure most of the coli hasn't either.

Society at large thinks that those twitter women represent the collective though. One of the main reasons why you saw white folks marching in the BLM protests was because of the black women on tiktok and twitter posting about it. Dababy got canceled overnight and his shows were canceled due to black women and black LGBTQ crying about him on twitter. Kanye recently had shows canceled beause they thought his "social media etiquette" wasnt normal. Wake up bruh fr. Yes those women are randoms who dont represent the majority, but WS will pretend that they are. Therein lies the problem. It's up to the on code black men and women to have a larger voice and presence.

 

[AAKing23]

the "black woman is murdered every 17 seconds" talking point is just the 2022 version of the "murderous rapist black man" stereotype

white dudes were saying similar things 100 years ago...

"a white woman is raped/murdered every 12 hours by a black man"

Not only that, but do black women really wanna go down that road of how many black women are killed vs black men are killed

Also the leaders in femicide and crimes against women are highly concentrated in the Latin American countries but you don't see Hispanic women putting their men on blast for it

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Yep…

She literally said aid

Even clowns on this forum going at black men


No one really gives af about black mens issues… been saying it since i was a child

Why would they? We're outgroup males. Pick up a sociology or evolutionary biology book or something. Ingroup males (white) will use tools to isolate outgroup males. In this case they use academia, black feminism and denying black men jobs.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Its time to have the discussion about black women giving custody of the children to black men.

That'll never happen lol. You would have to get past all the women's advocacy groups before that even becomes a reality. Use your head bruh, there's a reason why women across the board win custody.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Idk if she'll get a proper response and on twitter at that. First the women who do the emasculating have to admit it. Being raised in toxicity where their mamas and grandmamas did it, they think it's normal. They never saw a healthy relationship with a man and a woman so they don't know how to interact with men/boys. Second they then have to recognize it's wrong and change their behavior. That's all I got, emasculating men is not my thing. shyt's weird

That's not what she was alluding to. I think she meant how black women aid in the emasculation through media and politics. You have birds crying about how black men are homophobic then these same women are turning around talking about how white and arab men are traditional. Make it make sense.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Thread went just like I thought it would

yall nikkas just flaw and have your head in the sand
Keep thinking this shyt sweet out here
Even had a breh tell you what the play is with some of these teachers out here
And goofies still like
Huh Unh you telling
People who post on Twitter walk amongst you everyday
I don’t know why that’s such a hard concept to understand
Radicalization is at an all time high on the internet
And if you think this shyt is not a microcosm of outside
Then you would be denying reality or downright being obtuse just for the fukk of it

A lot of these clowns just goofy lol. They dont realize that a lot of CACs have also been gettting radicalized online. This is why you're seeing a rise in the far right here.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

My God. I keep telling people the internet is creating movements, both good and bad. People out here getting their brains rewired by social media.

Yall are NOW realizing this? Vice covered this topic about a million times already. Divest ideology spread like wildfire on tiktok, twitter, and facebook during the pandemic. black men always got their heads in the sand while things are happening. It's sad to watch.

 

[Unemployed GM]

Majority of Black Women don't think of themselves as Black People, they see themselves as a separate race from Black people. That fundamental difference is the reason why the community is in shambles

Reading about Black history is the last thing on their mind, because it doesn't concern them. They only care about Women history, specifically Feminist History

This is is why they don't bat an eye to disfigure themselves to look as non black as possible with perms, weaves, lighter makeup, and being submissive whenever they date non Black Men

On the list of their biggest concerns, competing with White Women to be the most sought after woman is more important than representing their Black culture

Breh so you’re saying that majority of black women are sellout c00n bedwenches?

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Breh so you’re saying that majority of black women are sellout c00n bedwenches?

When it comes to relationships, nah. When it comes to politics, media, etc. YES. There's no reason why Kimberly Crenshaw's ideology is now mainstream.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Everything I got and everything I know is due to the achievements of my father and grandfather.

This is why this anti-black male rhetoric triggers me to my core.

Idk about all these alcoholic abusive deadbeat black men that women on twitter are always complaining about.

I really dont know why yall back in forth with them. They are the employees at Goal Post Relocation services.

Everything they spew is can be proven false. There's way to much literature out there for them spit that bullshyt. shyt in fact I think there was a NYT article saying how black fathers are the most involved fathers...... But scratch that... Who in charge of at the basketball leagues? Football Leagues? Coaches? Right....... Thats why I ignore them bytches. They dont do nothing drop their fukking child off as a baby sitting service(I help run a basketball league as well so I see it)

 

[High Art]

You sound emasculated becuase you've emasculated yourself

You don't understand manhood

Masculinity is something you can only give yourself

If define what honor means to you, define what respect means to you, you define the boundaries of things you will do and not do, and what find acceptable

you learn these things through experiences, when you do or don't do something, and makes you feel less than a man, you know never to let that happen again or go down the same way, this is how you go from being a boy to a man

you crying about images, like we don't have outstanding young men everyday just look at boxers like Erroll Spence who grew up in the suburbs with both parents but got more dog in him, got warrior spirit in him that any of these bum ass street nikkaz

you can make a boy anything you want by giving him love and knowledge, and you talking about some goddamn images

grow the fukk up

The only one who sounds emasculated is you, living vicariously through fukking thugs and criminals lmao. You sound like a fukking child that can't think two seconds ahead. That can't fukking plan ahead for shyt. You talk about love and knowledge but images are part of that you fukkwit. This is the worst part. In your vain attempt to talk tough you're just outright contradicting yourself. The fukking idiocy of it all.

Again, go be the change you claim to want to be. Go and fix systemic issues by punching this person or that like it will actually fix things. Ignore all forms of policy, all forms of law, all forms of societal structure, all forms of anything, and use blind violence to fix these issues then go and do it and stop wasting everyone's time here. Anything else you have to say is just bullshyt and just you trying to find someone to fight your battles. fukk off.

The funny part in all of this is I'm a firm believer that violence is the final arbiter but holy shyt, it is a stupid option when things like politics, policy, and fukking money are better options to utilize. I mean really.

It's already happened, yall just got your heads in the sand and ignoring it on pirpose. Look a certain group co-opted BLM and diverted the funds. Ketanji Brown ruling against the lockheed martin victims. Go look up the stats on the black female judges in Texas, you'll notice something.

I understand where you're coming from. I was more referring to the black vote being splintered and thus rendered useless. In the end, black women have more to lose compared to black men if either party sits out an election or two. Both sides lose, but one side will ultimately lose more.

 

[jeh]

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