Tired of Preparing these Chicks for the Next Dude

jadillac

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Hanging out, giving advice, listening, etc

Yeah I feel you on this. I dont want to play games nor invite that type of vibe. Not looking for jump offs. Been there done that several times.


just my observation, and trust me we've all been played by chicks before whether ppl admit it or not....but you're getting what you seem to be putting out. You don't want sex/jumpoff etc

If you're not looking for tht, then you're listening, giving advice, hanging out, basically being a "friend" to them. If you're looking for a real relationship, then you gotta recognize some chicks aint worth it. Most aint. And most arent even worthy of being your friend to be honest.

And once you had 1 or 2 of them show their true colors then you know how what to look for and can disqualify other chicks right off the bat.

Some of us have warm hearts, but the game is cold. You gotta ignore your gentlemanly inclinations bc unfortunately because 99% of these women arent worthy of it. If you dont believe me, you probably see once they get what they want from you(advice/ur ear/ur time), they move on.

You dont have to be an overt a$$hole, just give them limited time

The ones are worthy will make themselves known. They will plan dates, they will pay, they will take initiative.
 

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I can't figure this out. Thought women wanted the educated, handsome brotha with his priorities in order. Pulling women has never been an issue for me. It's just that this year, I have been used for my time, positive energy, and attention. Nothing substantial has really come from it. What do women want out here?
You care too much Breh. Focus on yourself at all times. Improve and better yourself. A woman can appreciate a man that is focused on self improvement versus a man that’s just working to get a woman.
 
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