Tired of Preparing these Chicks for the Next Dude

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We are getting the same out of it. Timing has been off when I meet women. It's like I meet them when they arent totally on their shyt.

There is no right time.

If a woman wants you, they will adjust their timing and get on their shyt.

You're 40, I'm going to save you some time.

www.match.com
 

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For me, no woman is more fun than motorcycles and fast cars, not even on no incel status. Now if ole girl likes fast shyt too then we got something going on:mjlit:
That's my point. If you like ridin' alone, cool. But if you ride with folks, a woman that rides is essential, if you spend a significant time ridin'.

What too many of us will do is select women for their looks & bed manner, with no alignment of interest. Then we complain she has no hobbies/interest & is only good for ass, as if we were checkin' for anything else.

You wouldn't pick your boys like that.
 

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I can't figure this out. Thought women wanted the educated, handsome brotha with his priorities in order. Pulling women has never been an issue for me. It's just that this year, I have been used for my time, positive energy, and attention. Nothing substantial has really come from it. What do women want out here?
How much time transpires before you get to this point where you feel like you got used and wasted your time ? Are you talking like after 2 or 3 dates or are you talking about after a couple months
 

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Dikk them down until they ask "what are we" . Then set your standard to what you want it to be and under what circumstances /conditions.
This is how it's done.

OP, you're probably doing something that's coming off as needy. That's the only time women COMPLETELY drop you.
 

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You find what you're lookin' for if you do it right. Lookin' for p*ssy will net you p*ssy and have you thinkin' women ain't shyt. Nothin' wrong with it if that's all you want.

If u as a man out here "looking" for a wife
U a effeminate lame:manny:


I don't look for p*ssy either

I just make connections and base moves on how things organically present themselves :ehh:




But hey if u desperate u make desperate moves and smell like desperation :manny:

I can't relate
 

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That's my point. If you like ridin' alone, cool. But if you ride with folks, a woman that rides is essential, if you spend a significant time ridin'.

What too many of us will do is select women for their looks & bed manner, with no alignment of interest. Then we complain she has no hobbies/interest & is only good for ass, as if we were checkin' for anything else.

You wouldn't pick your boys like that.
Most women aren't into motorcycles and fast cars, looks like I'll be riding alone, but that V8 keeps me company:wow:

I should start a thread on women and hobbies:lolbron:
 

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I can't figure this out. Thought women wanted the educated, handsome brotha with his priorities in order. Pulling women has never been an issue for me. It's just that this year, I have been used for my time, positive energy, and attention. Nothing substantial has really come from it. What do women want out here?
:mjlol:hey man, can somebody hit me up with that smilie of the cheetahs laughing bcuz this wouldve been the perfect post to use it on
 

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Nah I want what most people eventually want and that is stability. I've had my fun with several women over a long period of time. I have also been in long term relationships. I have no kids and never been married. I'm not looking for a woman to choose me. I'm looking for one to reveal herself so I can wife it.
U going against yaself then
Cause if u believe the last line of your post, you would be cool and laid back and enjoying life.

If u ain't stable on your own
A wife won't make u stable in a marriage :manny:


Meet women enjoy them
Let them organically reveal who they are
When she reveal she not wifey material
Smash
Have fun
Then push on
Keep her on the roster

Meet another
If she reveals she wifey material, vet her good
Then make her wifey

That's it
 
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