When my cousin was 17, she got into an argument with her stepdad after he caught her sneaking boys in. In the heat of the moment, she told him, "You are not my daddy." The sad part is, he had been the one raising her since she was about six or seven months old, and at the time, she didn’t even know who her biological father was. In a fit of anger, he snapped and slapped her. Their relationship was never the same after that. Eventually, she found her real father and now treats him better than the stepdad who had been there for her, despite the fact that her biological father had abandoned her.
TK Kirkland "The worst thing you can do is to raise another man's child, its mental illness"
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Rasille
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Tough shyt.
Pull Up the Roots
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The worst thing you can do is have a child with someone and not take care of it. Something is wrong when taking care of a child is seen as a worse than abandoning one.
dora_da_destroyer
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yep, let’s just kill the foster system and let those kids suffer. Adoption? Let’s get rid of that too…let’s just leave kids in shytty group homes or in the streets
King_Kamala61
TheColi's Big Black Areolae Supremicist
Not all kids will hate their step dads. You gotta understand that you ain't the dad and tell the little fukker you are an advisor
This right here. All this shyt happening and this is the dumb topic folks want to rehash.
Smh
Brolic
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This. Smh at posters ITT trying shame men for not wanting to raise some losers child.
Richard Glidewell
Yall done tore all the bottom of ya shoes w/me!!!
Why the fukk would I ever take advice from somebody as fukked up as this?!
We should do a follow up poll of how many of us had our dads in our lives regularly.
It's disappointing seeing this kind of content shared. Anyone reading in between the line can see how destructive it is to view kids that aren't your as foreign like this.
I'm not saying wife up any/every body, I'm saying that taking care of the kids of the woman you love is not mental illness. It's what a man does and strengthens the (black) community. You can't preach these selfish views and then act surprised when the community is struggling
It's disappointing seeing this kind of content shared. Anyone reading in between the line can see how destructive it is to view kids that aren't your as foreign like this.
I'm not saying wife up any/every body, I'm saying that taking care of the kids of the woman you love is not mental illness. It's what a man does and strengthens the (black) community. You can't preach these selfish views and then act surprised when the community is struggling
Guys like him take that too far, if the man is compatible with the kid and can get the kid to recognize him as the new leader, then the relationship can develop and the family can work. Now personally i wouldn't get with a single mother unless i was going to give her a baby too, but after reflecting on life, imo, the kids didn't ask to be born in this chaotic life on earth so if a man feels like they'll help raise them then I don't have an issue with that cause most kids deserve a good father of any kind
Between nikkas like this racking up the views and Trump, do yall seriously TRULY still have hope for us in this country? Cause sheesh
MoveForward
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Did you grow up in a single parent household?
god shamgod
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That’s not our fault