TLR Is A Rest Haven For Men Of Little Value

[SeveroDrgnfli]

People need a place to express their emotions. Good or bad.

You're right, thing is if someone complains about the same thing for over a year at what point do you tell this person to STFU?
It's not productive to complain, reject the resolution, and have a shytty attitude. The only thing that does in perpetuate the cycle which isn't productive. Everyone deserves a safe space, but the shot clock is on fam. In therapy, there's an exercise we do. We give ourselves five minutes to bytch as much as possible. We set a timer. As soon as that five minutes is up we have to get over it or be productive in that situation.

Again, complaining is fine. Always complaining about the same shyt is not okay. It's not healthy to complain and cast blame on others.

 

[Rawtid]

Except they'd get much further if they expressed them in real life. All this is jut going on in their head I mean the forum posts. It's not honest real life interaction that you can gain from.

Unfortunately a lot of people don’t tolerate “emotional” men. Probably hard to find people to open up to without hearing shyt like “man up”, “ you just gotta be tough”, “quit acting like a bytch”.

 

[J.E.T.S]

Lol @ the ether in this thread

 

[Rawtid]

You're right, thing is if someone complains about the same thing for over a year at what point do you tell this person to STFU?
It's not productive to complain, reject the resolution, and have a shytty attitude. The only thing that does in perpetuate the cycle which isn't productive. Everyone deserves a safe space, but the shot clock is on fam. In therapy, there's an exercise we do. We give ourselves five minutes to bytch as much as possible. We set a timer. As soon as that five minutes is up we have to get over it or be productive in that situation.

Again, complaining is fine. Always complaining about the same shyt is not okay. It's not healthy to complain and cast blame on others.

I feel you on this, but I also think this is what causes people to shut down and not discuss their problems with anyone. I do agree with what you're saying though, but in practice, it may be more difficult to execute for various reasons.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

I feel you on this, but I also think this is what causes people to shut down and not discuss their problems with anyone. I do agree with what you're saying though, but in practice, it may be more difficult to execute for various reasons.

You're right. Some people need a gloves on approach. For me being brutally honest with myself about my situation is what made me change it. Now I'm doing everything I planned to do a year ago. It all started with me changing my attitude and taking advice from men of value. It wasn't easy to hear and accept I am the source of my own discomfort. My big homies told me I'm choosing to suffer. I decided to not suffer anymore and stop blaming others for my life.

I rarely get depressed now and I'm always positive, even when people are negative I remind myself I choose how I feel. I don't allow someone to have power over my position or emotions. It's not a winning mentality.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Yo you’re spitting some real shyt. TLR has become kind of a joke to me. There were dope threads a few years ago when I joined but now all these dudes are just crying about life. shyt is pathetic. It got so bad that I had to put people on ignore because I got tired of their threads.

 

[TEH]

just gonna leave this here

/thread

 

[NinoBrown]

I don't see the problem with TLR, people are taking the internet a little too seriously....People just want a place to vent, so no harm there....

 

[HopeKillCure]

This thread is about negative toxic people in tlr, not the rankings of "cool and wack" posters.
Either way, at least the things i post are positive(fine chicks) and silly(fleshlight).

You'll never see me making threads about hating whites,women and gays.

Stop with the sensitive complaining all the time!

Nobody hates whites you fakkit. You are just a shytty poster and possibly shytty human being also, but i dont know you, so you are just a shytty poster in my book.

Why do you or anyone care so much about what this or any other forum thinks about you?

one day you quitting forever, then day you back again complaining about the forums posters. Why do y'all desperately want the respect of the people here? If you are a real fukking man of value then why don't you go into the non-racist world you live in and become something of value. Something of value enough that you actually stop posting here when you say that you will, or you stop posting complain threads about nikkahs who don't care about you nor even like you as a poster

 

[HopeKillCure]

I don't see the problem with TLR, people are taking the internet a little too seriously....People just want a place to vent, so no harm there....

Some of these nikkahs are legit unhinged and have mental health problems.

Why do nikkahs on an internet forum bother you? I think all the threads in the Booth are trash and don't like to hear hip hop advice from non-blacks so i don't post there anymore. I think the coliseum is interesting, but once again, posting with people pretending to be a race they are not bothers me, so I don't post there. Higher Learning was gonna be interesting as fukk I thought, but after 1 week of seeing what people post about in there and reading the back and forth with trolls, I never post there also.

These dumbass could easily not post in TLR or just avoid the threads they dont want to read. However, these nikkahs want attention and validation, because they aint getting any in their real life...Some men of value

 

[Rawtid]

I don't see the problem with TLR, people are taking the internet a little too seriously....People just want a place to vent, so no harm there....

Same here. It seems like people are investing too heavily in other people’s thoughts. Post a better topic or skip over it. Not really that hard for real.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

just gonna leave this here

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[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I've always said this

If you come to TLR for anything but fukkery you lost

It's immediately obvious to anyone with sense a lot of posters here.... TOP posters... are miserable, lost and unwilling to change course. It's sad. But there is still the fukkery

 

[Rawtid]

You're right. Some people need a gloves on approach. For me being brutally honest with myself about my situation is what made me change it. Now I'm doing everything I planned to do a year ago. It all started with me changing my attitude and taking advice from men of value. It wasn't easy to hear and accept I am the source of my own discomfort. My big homies told me I'm choosing to suffer. I decided to not suffer anymore and stop blaming others for my life.

I rarely get depressed now and I'm always positive, even when people are negative I remind myself I choose how I feel. I don't allow someone to have power over my position or emotions. It's not a winning mentality.

How long did it take to get yourself together? I think when you're on the other side, it's kind of easy to say what people should do, but how many time did you fail or had to hear "STFU no one wants to hear that", before you got yourself right? Surely it wasn't the first time. I remember when Sagat was ranting and raging all over the place and he eventually got in a better state of mind. I wish the same for anyone here. Sometimes you just need a place to let it all out.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

yeah TRL at times is TOXIC as fukk, like a bunch of nikkas telling you if you do this or listen to that your a cac. I hate the fact that you have people thinking that black people should be sheltered and not exploring things.

I remember last time a thread where nikkas was saying only white people listen to rock music

I was like c'mon brehs

Can't travel to anywhere except africa because black people should only go to the motherland

Can't watch game of thrones because white people

Your only allowed to fukk black queens but when there was a thread asking if you pawged 90% did

then there was a thread where they asked have you fukked and 90% never did

THE fukkING COLI

This is actually proof you shouldn't take tlr seriously. But op still gave facts.