To all my "get married brehs" bretheren

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Your right! But even after you get married you have to want to stay married. I agree tho cus the reality of marriage is a lot less exciting than the idea of it. People want it to make them happy an leave when it doesn't. as if ones happiness should be tied to another person.

yep...you are responsible for your own happiness in life....no one elses....

does my wife aggravate me at times. yep...do i piss her off? of course i do...but you work thru that. TOGETHER

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

yep...you are responsible for your own happiness in life....no one elses....

does my wife aggravate me at times. yep...do i piss her off? of course i do...but you work thru that. TOGETHER

#truth

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

im the one who started the get married brehs

marriage is a sham and a joke, doesn't mean i won't date, wont cavort or canoodle or hell wont be in a long lasting relationship.

not true breh....

marriage isnt the problem....its some of the people in them that are the problem

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

are yall really stuntin on these hoes?
or lowkey depressed cuz it didnt work out?
i cant picture life in my 30's being single id wanna settle down and start a familly
yall nikkas really happy , or yall gave up?

If you have to find happiness within someone else instead of yourself then thats really sad breh, plus signing a contract does not increase happiness

 

[saint25225]

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[Truality]

i'm gettin married in november

the best that can happy is i live a happy life with my wife and fam

the worst is that i can say "at least i tried it"

 

[Killer Instinct]

22 & I'll get married eventually but I'm nowhere near ready to settle down.
Been seriously dating this Asian chick and I'll see where it leads, but we're both in school and from what we've discussed, it seems like we're on the same wavelength about not being in any hurry to marry anyone when the topic was brought up casually.
Her family is really traditional though so if this goes on long enough between us, it's going to be interesting to see if her tune changes down the line.

 

[hu3ypdadon]

Being with the same person over time gets boring. .but maybe its different when u get older idk

 

[Easy-E]

I understand the feeling when you are not used to seeing examples of lasting marriages. But it can also be that when people get into marriage thinking of themselves and what they get out of it only that is what contribute to the failure of marriages. My own father was one of them...he filed for divorce when he had cheated on multiple occasions and deserted us, and fathered two kids with a white lady in europe. Hes remmarried with kids...
My mother never filed for child support, she's old school african lady and believes in keeping house no matter what.
But I still believe in marriage...I had to be honest with myself in my early 20s and realized I was scared of getting hurt.

My feelngs have developed and I've had UPS and downs.

But, what I take from it; I can t go to fam for marriage advice...except one couple.

And have more experience with bad relationships and more hope, wishes and fantasy about good ones.

You have to learn to be married. It's on the job training and with the right person can be worth it.

It's really about commitment above all else .

I'm still shook.

 

[Yup]

Being with the same person over time gets boring. .but maybe its different when u get older idk

Life is bot always exciting.

 

[My neck and my back]

me not wanting to get married doesn't mean that i wouldn't be in a relationship

 

[Bawon Samedi]

Me personally I never want to get married. I consider marriage outdated and the west has a skewed definition of marriage. That's just my opinion. If you believe you should get married, then you should do so. Marriage is just not for me. I can't be with the same women forever. But the downside for me is that I do want children in the future.

 

[CHILLL]

why woudl you depress?:

why do you need a woman to make you happy?

you co dependant azz nukka.

lol at getting married just because you want to settle down and start a famiy.

waits for i dont want to be the old nukka in teh club, bla bla bs bs bs

half of marriages fail, infidelity and divorce are both on the rise, the person who loves you today may not tomorrow, why worry and stress.

Get your passport travel the world live life i say, if a good woman comes along for the ride cool if not

what about the other half playboi
the gllass is half full or half empty

 

[Colicat]

Being with the same person over time gets boring. .but maybe its different when u get older idk

I am sure it does.... that is why you have to actively work on your bond with your partner.....

I really feel like my generation doesn't want to put in that work....
they don't want to water their own lawn to keep it green but are quick to say that the grass next door is greener...

Loyalty, communication, and a willingness to grow and improve are needed... but hey.... what do I know? I don't have a husband/man...

 

[Jahmal]

are yall really stuntin on these hoes?
or lowkey depressed cuz it didnt work out?
i cant picture life in my 30's being single id wanna settle down and start a familly
yall nikkas really happy , or yall gave up?

I'm 33 and I'm smashing young hot women all the time. I make good money, travel to exotic countries, live in a fly ass condo and drive a nice car. No fat wife spending all my money, denying me sex and no kids screaming in my ear all night long. How is that depressing?