To be a young self-aware , non-stereotypcial and successful black man is one of the loneliest positions on the planet

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Go out and find friends.
That's the only answer.
Go out, meet people, get introduced to people.
Express that you're seeking comradery and friendships.
Most young brehs (22-33) I've met have bene cool as fukk.


Smoke some blunts.
Get at girls.
Go do young, relatively successful young breh shyt.
 

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I think I suffer from main character syndrome to an extent. But I'm not a bad person yall. I am a very a caring and sensitive man. Because of this I've always been an outcast. Most of my best friends have been women because I they really invest in friendships. I've had close brother type friends with dudes I grew up with but they're all living life on the edge now. In and out of jail. Still doing stupid hood shyt in their 30s. I can't be around that type of shyt now. Especially having a daughter.
 

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You siding with a closeted fake pro Black homo that writes aggressive DM’s about rough gay sex to coli members at 3am :dead: :dame:





Exactly and you calling any one a faq is laughable and classic projecting.

How am i fake pro black its not a contest breh. You go out of your way to declare your animosty towards black women and some brehs clown you for it people clown me for my anger issues and i move on the thing is you so egotistical in your bedbuckery you think you’re above being cracked on. That’s funny af to me
 

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How am i fake pro black its not a contest breh. You go out of your way to declare your animosty towards black women and some brehs clown you for it people clown me for my anger issues and i move on the thing is you so egotistical in your bedbuckery you think you’re above being cracked on. That’s funny af to me

I give valid criticisms of Black women, you pander, and write late night gay novels in nikkas DM’s.

You need your money back from that therapist you’re seeing cuz he finessing you.

This the last response you getting outta me in this thread cuz we derailing it.

You an angry closeted faq.

Have a nice night, and don’t DM no gay shyt like you did the other nikkas
 

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Gotta be. Today he’s superior. The other day he made a thread telling everybody about his body odor issues
:heh:
You can feel superior with body odor issues. Successful 6 cert nikkahs can afford to wear organic deoderant without aluminum and phthalates. And we only need showers every other day because we work from home.
 

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I give valid criticisms of Black women, you pander, and write late night gay novels in nikkas DM’s.

You need your money back from that therapist you’re seeing cuz he finessing you.

This the last response you getting outta me in this thread cuz we derailing it.

You an angry closeted faq.

Have a nice night, and don’t DM no gay shyt like you did the other nikkas

How do I pander when there’s not even women on this forum. Do you see how unhinged you actually are? But I agree we not gonna see eye to eye so lets end this nonsense breh
 

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This is a classic case of the grass being greener on the other side.

I have a few friends and cousins who are broke, have baby mama issues, used to get high on drugs, have dead end jobs, etc. and they are absolutely far more miserable than I am. Many have contemplated suicide and aired out all of their issues to me. I think OP is ironically glamourizing the "hood life" without recognizing the immense amount of trauma, stress, and plight that comes with it. I know dudes who damn near almost got into fights with their landlords over rent and who constantly have to beg people for money just to pay their bills on time. My "non-stereotypical" and successful Black @ss never has to worry about that shyt at all and I've even gave these dudes money after they've begged me.

I'm 30 years old, an accountant, paid off my college debt several years ago, have a steady girlfriend atm, and have tons of autonomy over my own life. I also have tons of friends and most of them are Black.

I'm nowhere near lonely at all. I think what typically happens is that "non-stereotypical" Black people are more comfortable discussing their personal issues and mental health than street dudes or broke dudes. But trust me......TONS of street dudes and broke dudes are absolutely depressed, have few actual friends, have children and baby mamas who despise their existence(either from their own actions or biases), and have to guilt trip their own family into loaning them money. That sounds pretty damn "lonely" to me.

Meanwhile, I know tons of successful Black men who are living the life and getting along with tons of other Black people. Keep in mind, too, that there's middle class Black areas.
 
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