I think it's moreso the fact that most people are who they are, if a girl wants a paid dude, she's gonna seek that.
Arguing about it, I learn alot on different subjects but in reality it's not gonna change how people think so talking or putting too much into it makes it seem like the person doing the most talking is bitter.
I see this in the real world alot, I know alot of guys who struggle with women and life in general and the more they vent the more they come off as bitter to others who are quite good where they at in life.
So it's quite tough, people just say toughen up and stop complaining even if you feel you have a right to complain.
Feminism imo is here to stay, women have freedom, I don't think women gonna lay up under any old man tomorrow cuz of a change of opinion.
And dudes gotta man up period. it's just life.
I will share something that my mother shared with me when discussing dealing with women. She basically said to not argue with women I ain’t fukking.
Her point is that you argue with people you have a connection with or rapport or some sort of emotional ties because at least you can make up once the issue or conflict has subsided.
When she told me this, my whole perception about women changed. I was able to gain clarity and put certain things into perspective.
Obviously, there is some nuance involved that lead to her giving me said advice, but it still was some great advice that I strive to live by to this day(if possible).
Point of sharing the above is that it is pointless to argue with folks who aren’t a part of your personal life. I don’t come here to argue. I come here to be entertained as well as learn. When people argue, then the argument becomes the focus as opposed to what you and whoever is arguing about. So, what are you and the other person is learning at that point?
People here say a lot of shyt that I don’t agree with, but I don’t feel like arguing with them why I disagree or don’t like about what they said, think or feel.
I certainly don’t want to get into net banging and have nikkas talk about crossing state lines to catch fades. Too old for that shyt, plus I got things to lose that are too important for me.
Lastly, in regards to your comment regarding dudes who struggle with getting women being bitter and needing to man up...
No offense to you, but I would not take advice from dudes telling me to man up because they don’t understand and/or don’t care about my struggle. Point is..
Some people struggle with women and it affects them. People also need to vent. Better to vent then to hold it in until said person explode and really hurt someone innocent.
We are human beings who need a support system. Perhaps you may not be the person to offer support because you don’t have any comraderie with dude, so your level of compassion and not empathy for dude isn’t there to help him grow as a person.
If you want people to speak on topics important to the community, then there needs to be an avenue for people to express themselves without the bullshyt.
