Did you have positive Male figures in your life that were family members? And do you think it is an issue that your mother never informed you who your father was?
To those who don't know who their father is.....
- Thread starter Apollo Creed
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don't remind me bruh
don't remind me bruh
I always found this an interesting dynamic. Especially how you have dudes who love having recreational sex/one night stands you have men who probably dont even know they have kids, and sometimes mothers who just act like the kids father doesn't exist or even saying "your daddy dont love you dont worry about who he is". I just really think the stats of men walking out on kids are skewed. I have never seen a dude that was with a woman for 5-10 yrs just bounce and say eff the kid as if the kid didnt exist. Typically there was no family to even walk away from, and the kids were products of one night stands. I really wonder sometimes when a child is not created out of love how does that impact the kids life, because I would assume the parents of the kid would probably be jacked up in the head.
I had met my pops for the first time like 2 years back. He a cool dude. I wasn't like most young Brehs when they meet their pops tell him he ain't sh!t. I realize my mom's was a thot and my pops a trick and I was just a nut that turned into a baby.I love both my parents though.I'm not going to lie though some days I wish my pops would've wore a rubber.
Klyk21
Hate is Rising, Love is Dying....
I would like to see the stats on this one too bruh. It's lt's kind of hard to imagine but I do know that some men get scared of true commitment (family) and then will still be calling up ex's for the smash so it's possible...
Big Woadie
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I got plenty fathers.
Benjamin, Franklin, Grant, hell even Washington
Benjamin, Franklin, Grant, hell even Washington
My father
my parents were married almost 10 yrs AND I'm his only child. when they divorced, he divorced me too and walked away and never really looked back. Was absent my whole life (he was partially absent in their marriage while I was little too). 
Shyt does happen brehs.
How old were you when they divorced?My father
I'm a honest dude, I remember when I was like around 10 my moms was dating this dude name Rodney.One day Rodney gave me $20 for making good grades. I had put the 20 bucks in my dresser.Later that day he was complaining how he lost his wallet. I woke up the next day to find the $20 he gave me missing.The honesty
I'm a honest dude, I remember when I was like around 10 my mom's was dating this dude name Rodney.One day Rodney gave me $20 for making good grades. I had put the 20 bucks in my dresser.Later that day he was complaining how he lost his wallet. I woke up the next day to find the $20 he gave me missing.
Rodney bytch ass for taking money he gave a child back shyt is unacceptable
This is something people hate admitting though, I was listening to Jason Black and a guy called up and talked about how his mom had 3 kids and how he didnt have a good relationship with his dad, and when he went to college his dad didnt help, so dude started bashing his pops then Jason asked "Well what did your mom provide for college" and dude started to get on some "bu bu bu she tried", eff all that, if the woman can't take care of her self how she going to take care of a child or 3 at that? I was in New Orleans and some lady had her 6 kids dancing on Bourbon street for money while she was just sitting there in rollers and a night gown, that made me sick to my stomach.
Like the worst thing a person can do is bring a child into a world where love doesn't exist then treat the kid like they are the reason for your problems.
Thats why I bring up the other thing, did any of you have good men in your family? Because I hear people say "I dont have no daddy", and thats a slap in the face to any man who helped you in your life, and If you have a family where all the men are bums then that is really sad.
My father
oh of course there are bum humans out there, but there are 3 sides to every story. For example in our eyes it may appear he didnt want anything to do with you, but it could be a whole other story with what actually happened with him and your mom, because as kids we only see a few things then get the rest of the story from our mothers who could be holding a bias and or distorting things.