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This. I've gotten better with reading women I feel like...there's just so many different scenarios to work out and how to approach them.

How to get her attention when she's with her friends...do you go for one or all or what?
What type of hints is she dropping?
What can be used to initiate a convo (icebreaker...a clothing article...tricky...maybe her cellphone cover...or the weather...or build off of something she says).

Eye contact...is the maker and breaker...seriously though. People underestimate this.
Naw man, you don't even have to think, just say hi. I saw these 2 Asian chicks today at work and I wanted to pull 1 so bad but discouraged myself cause there were 2, but it's like if need be introduce yourself to 1 and be like whatsapp
 
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Man...I've realized I can't be getting nervous like that. It's weird that happens, but that's like whatever. It's not worth it to get nervous like that...you just gotta bite the bullet and spit that game. Cause who knows when you might see that chick again? Seriously. That's how I think of it now...in sort of an opportunist type way.
Ill probably see her tomorrow, its that i never approach women...
 
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Naw man, you don't even have to think, just say hi. I saw these 2 Asian chicks today at work and I wanted to pull 1 so bad but discouraged myself cause there were 2, but it's like if need be introduce yourself to 1 and be like whatsapp

Yeah...especially with girls in groups that's all it takes. Then her friend talks about ya "like oh...that guy we saw today he so cool" or something like that and now you're in their minds. It's like advertising in a way...but advertising yourself.

I used to be the same way. Around girls I would really like I would just get sooooooo nervous. Now I'm just all smiles and like nothing, I'm just starting a conversation and it keeps going and going and then next thing I know I got her number.
 

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I know that feel man, it happened to me many times, its easy to say oh just go there you got nothing to lose but since im not an outgoing person its a little harder to do it. Thats why im thinking about get some drink
Bro, you're outgoing on here, I'm funny & I think you're funny. It's weird, like in front of some people you can flourish like flowers in the summer, but with others you can't cause y'all aren't on the same energy channel. If y'all are on the same wave I'm sure your sense of humor will kick in.
 

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Yeah...especially with girls in groups that's all it takes. Then her friend talks about ya "like oh...that guy we saw today he so cool" or something like that and now you're in their minds. It's like advertising in a way...but advertising yourself.

I used to be the same way. Around girls I would really like I would just get sooooooo nervous. Now I'm just all smiles and like nothing, I'm just starting a conversation and it keeps going and going and then next thing I know I got her number.
Yeah, either that or her friends hate on you cause they lonely bytches :snoop:

Well if that's the case jump back in the game with me! Btw can I pull in my work uniform, I be getting the eye like no other when hoes see I got all access to the airport :noah:
 
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Bro, you're outgoing on here, I'm funny & I think you're funny. It's weird, like in front of some people you can flourish like flowers in the summer, but with others you can't cause y'all aren't on the same energy channel. If y'all are on the same wave I'm sure your sense of humor will kick in.
Yea i hope we on the same vibe, so do you usually end up asking for their number?
 

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There's this broad i crossed yesterday when i left work, i just kept eyeing her and said nothing she did the same.
Today the same shyt happend, i said nothing again :snoop: if i see her tomorrow ill have to say something brehs
Do i still have any chance or she already saw im a p*ssy? I was thinking about "oh hey we crossing again, let me say my name..."

Im thinking about drink some before leaving or i might get nervous and blew it up :sadcam:
This. I've gotten better with reading women I feel like...there's just so many different scenarios to work out and how to approach them.

How to get her attention when she's with her friends...do you go for one or all or what?
What type of hints is she dropping?
What can be used to initiate a convo (icebreaker...a clothing article...tricky...maybe her cellphone cover...or the weather...or build off of something she says).

Eye contact...is the maker and breaker...seriously though. People underestimate this.
when she is with her friend go directly to her and talk her
In the meantime you gotta make her friends feel comfortable but your eye should be directly to the one you wanna fukk

The whole let me holla at her ugly friends and get the dime jealouse is wack

Always out your intention upfront makes you look.l confident
 

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There's this broad i crossed yesterday when i left work, i just kept eyeing her and said nothing she did the same.
Today the same shyt happend, i said nothing again :snoop: if i see her tomorrow ill have to say something brehs
Do i still have any chance or she already saw im a p*ssy? I was thinking about "oh hey we crossing again, let me say my name..."

Im thinking about drink some before leaving or i might get nervous and blew it up :sadcam:
Ya she thinks your a puss but that's okay you can reverse it


Here's what you do


Catch her by surprise next time you see her and talk to her
Don't say any corny shyt like hi my name is such and such


But make sure she don't see you first cause that's gonna bring back memories of how you were such a big puss
 

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Yea i hope we on the same vibe, so do you usually end up asking for their number?
Honestly, in clubs I give my number out, but since I haven't been out in a minute, the last time I pulled in public (shyt) I got the number. If the vibe feels right. But I mean like it's better you ask right then & there so you ain't feeling like Tevin Campbell wanting to write letters and shyt plus you cut out a lot of bs. Kinda show that you want something off the bat and you ain't afraid to ask
 

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Yea i hope we on the same vibe, so do you usually end up asking for their number?
Don't ask for the number right away cause that usually ends the Convo...your just gonna be like another nikka she gave a number too

Talk to her and say some shyt that's funny...it should get to a point where she's like


"You know we should exchange numbers"

And by this time your like aight take my number


And when sends you a text message she would be like

"I really enjoyed out Convo "

And that's when you reply like 5hrs later with

"Same as well"


And leave it to that

This eliminates the whole text all day

Don't be a text buddy

Call her a week later and plan a meet up


You should be in her pants by week 2
 
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