Tokyo vanity explains why blacc women don’t submit to black men

[gtj1982]

I don't think we want submissive women just non-combative and argumentative women.

My ex always copped an attitude talking about you not my daddy whenever I got on her ass about taking care things.

She had no idea what being a husband and her being a wife entailed and no matter how much direction I tried to give she just didn't like no one telling her what to do or how things are going to go.

Anyway we divorced and she with a clown who don't work and she text me all the time complaining she feel like she dating a child who she can't rely on and she misses that I always held us down and took care of things

 

[Dave24]

I don't think we want submissive women just non-combative and argumentative women.

My ex always copped an attitude talking about you not my daddy whenever I got on her ass about taking care things.

She had no idea what being a husband and her being a wife entailed and no matter how much direction I tried to give she just didn't like no one telling her what to do or how things are going to go.

Anyway we divorced and she with a clown who don't work and she text me all the time complaining she feel like she dating a child who she can't rely on and she misses that I always held us down and took care of things

@gtj1982 How did the guy who she eneded up with get with her? Since he doesn't work and is broke how did he pull that off?

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

@gtj1982 How did the guy who she eneded up with get with her? Since he doesn't work and is broke how did he pull that off?

Happens every day in the hood

 

[gtj1982]

@gtj1982 How did the guy who she eneded up with get with her? Since he doesn't work and is broke how did he pull that off?

We'll he had a job when he got with her but he was going through a divorce too and I guess they bonded over that at the time. It's funny though because she always told me I didn't have to work when we were together. I think she like the idea of control by being the bread winner "man of the house" but she wasn't really prepared for all the responsibility that came with that and never realized all the things I took care of from paying the bills, planning and investments.

 

[Flawdaboi]

Men who sit around stressing about submissive “this and that” are cornballs and never had an actual girlfriend in their lives.

A woman will naturally become “submissive” to certain extents when a man proves himself to be worthy of that.

A lot of dudes in this era think just by being a man that automatically a woman should be submissive to no avail and those kind of men wind up miserable and lonely like a rather large segment of TLR.

When nikkas like yourself stop saying this dumbass shyt, we'll be alright.

Like others have stated in this thread, a woman who's naturally submissive doesn't turn it on and off based on how someone else treats them. A man shouldn't have to proud anything if thats her natural character/state. If someone is a genuinely a nice person, thats not going to be conditional. That's who they are! Most times this will get them hurt and taken advantage of, because most of the world takes advantage of said people.

If a woman has natural paternal instincts she won't put her children in harms way... I've seen chick's in the hood leave their children around strangers, home alone ect. People thought just because she had a child that switch was going to come on. If a dude is a bum or spoiled...because of his mother, no father in the household. He's not going to turn that shyt off just because he now has a woman. He's going to continue to be that bum who's spoiled....because thats WHO HE IS!

 

[Flawdaboi]

Honestly, this shyt is exhausting....

The fact that we sit around and argue about this in front of the world is even more exhausting.

 

[the elastic]

TLR is lowkey a just a 90s talk show in message board form.

"Today, our question is...'Do black men deserve submission from the modern black woman?' Our guests include a single mother of 2 from Cincinatti, a 35-year old bachelor from Dallas, Texas, and his mammy Patrice"​

Nah, but fr on topic though: I never had to go hard for submission from ANY woman. Being straightforward does that.

 

[KidJSoul]

Went to see Corey Holcombe recently. Hilarious of course, and his best line probably wasn’t even scripted. He just simply said ‘Why do we even listen to women?’

In true Corey holcombe delivery. Everybody is weak, and he let it marinate and you can even feel in the room dudes AND women was like ‘damn yea, he do got a point’

I say that to say …nggas pay WAY too much attention to what these random chicks be thinking and saying bruh. I could see if Beyoncé said it, but ngga…Tokyo Vanity? Been lurking a while, been on many other forums, etc, and it’s slowly gotten worse. Nggas been corrupted by hoe babble

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