you payin?Is this a red flag, especially since she wants me to pay for her to come to my own birthday

you payin?
it means she wants u. pay that money

Man, that just don't sound right. I think you need to get a new "Ladyfriend" for your birthday.
Girl im seeing, keeps asking me out on dates saying her treat
And I have a good job![]()
on spending money on girls.Well, if you knew her for that long I don't know. It's still messed up unless she was playing.I couldnt find the right term to use. I been knowing her since the first time i moved to texas bacc in 6th grade fucced around with her in middle school, she left bacc to LA den came bacc around my senior year. We always planned shyt but it never worked out. So shes not really me "ex" but shes not a regular friend either.
But if she's like that she may not have your best interest at heart. That's on you to decide though, if she's not a regular friend then I would treat her as such until you got on that level.
I dont even go to my own damn math class
I'll talk to her about it tomorrowLeave your wallet at home and make sure to show her its not in your pockets...