Tommy da gawd points out kelly rowlands self hate

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i was with you until this, it's easy to say people like him are part of the problem. when truth is the people he's making videos about are part of the real problem.

He is part of the problem. We are ALL part of the community, and if you are not actively trying to to fix the problems within the community then you are part of the problem. Not only is tommy not trying to fix the problem he is adding to it.
 

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I'm not sure if I understand your question bruh.

My whole point is this, (and I have remained consistent with this since I joined the Coli, EVERYONE should be criticized, nobody is free from a roast!) I don't hate black women. I don't have this hateful agenda to fulfill in bashin black women. I don't even go in on black women on some super disrespectful shyt. (And y'all know that)

I always preface my coments with "some black women." And when its time to criticize some of these dusty, irresponsible nyggaz in our community that fucc shyt up for nyggaz like me, I speak on that too.

The problem I have is the notion that when a black man criticizes the black woman, he is called every k00n in the book. But on the flip side, u hear our women talk all day about "how nyggaz ain't shyt, ya daddy ain't shyt, these nyggaz are all locked up and duckin child spport" etc etc. And yeah, a lot of those criticisms are tru, that is a fact. But u can't point fingers and then get mad when the finger is pointed back at u.
Your issue is that you are in here with dudes who do that co-signing what they say. If you a good dude who rolls with thug nikkaz, you gonna be labeled as one of them. If you come in here agreeing with these dudes then you will be judged. Maybe you should fall back from that.
 

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the irony of it all. tommy needs to look @ himself if he wants to talk about self hatred. he must really be feeling himself if he can't call out himself for being a damn self hating a$$hole.

he has NOTHING positive to say about women. NOTHING. why even take his ass seriously?
 

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the irony of it all. tommy needs to look @ himself if he wants to talk about self hatred. he must really be feeling himself if he can't call out himself for being a damn self hating a$$hole.

he has NOTHING positive to say about women. NOTHING. why even take his ass seriously?

i don't think y'all understand the meaning of self hatred, even though it's self explanatory. if i hate black women with weave and contacts that act like they haven't had home training -- how is that hatred of self?

i've been called a self hater on coli by some bytch cus i said black women need to wear their own hair.
 

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the motive is to shame negative behavior instead of praising it or allowing it as the norm. for decades, we've made it a habit to normalize the shyt every other community rejects. at what point are you doing to say enough is enough? you think black women will continue to think being single mothers is the shyt if everyone shyts on 'em for it? you think black women will continue to let aint shyt men fukk em raw, if they can no longer run to the "he abandoned us" excuse after gettin knocked up after?

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Man you don't want to help shyt. You said you hope they just die off. Black people get shytted on enough we shouldn't be shytting on ourselves for any reason. If you want to helps the fatherless child situation find a black woman and start a family with her. Lead by example, shaming people never changes anything.
 

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white women out number black women 5 to 1 in america. so every single thing we see these black women doing, we should see 5x as many videos/news articles of white women doing the same shyt. start using logic instead of emotion.

The point is this isn't white or black behavior it's human behavior. By labeling it has black women behavior you imply that it has something to do with skin color, which it doesn't.
 

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Man you don't want to help shyt. You said you hope they just die off. Black people get shytted on enough we shouldn't be shytting on ourselves for any reason. If you want to helps the fatherless child situation find a black woman and start a family with her. Lead by example, shaming people never changes anything.

i would definitely prefer they died off, but that aint happening long as white daddy tax dollars subsidizes their lifestyle -- and shame does work, problem is we shame the wrong things in our community.
 

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i would definitely prefer they died off, but that aint happening long as white daddy tax dollars subsidizes their lifestyle -- and shame does work, problem is we shame the wrong things in our community.

Shame doesn't change people. Black men have always been shamed for not taking care of their kids yet they still have irresponsible sex and leave their kids behind. Shame changes nothing. Uplifting people and giving them positive reinforcement torward attainable goals is what changes people.
 

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Bruh. U took my post and went in 7 different directions. I don't know what ur talkin about with the tutoring and mentoring comment. Who is complaining about wome givin brothas the runaround? :what: I'm not.

I'm not bashin all black women, but it is important to point out self hate and ratched behavior with black women. And what are u talkin about with the "weak minded dudes?" U sound just like some of these black women that say, "y'all nyggaz just can't handle a strong black woman, y'all nyggaz are too weak" :what: Black men are not "handlers" or zookeepers we should have to "handle a black woman."

Everybody deserves criticism, including black men. But I find it funny that whnever the black woman is criticized for her bad behavior, the black man is demonized for doin so. Its almost like u can't say anything bad about bad behavior and self hate with some black women.
Within the context of this board, the "criticism" is heavily skewed and is often used to rationalize black men's fukk ups. When people have made threads talking about how black men are fukking up or even to try and talk about how to improve ourselves (beyond the context of manipulating black women) the threads were often met with anger. You nikkas are on some coy Fox News "fair and balanced" bullshyt.
 

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Shame doesn't change people. Black men have always been shamed for not taking care of their kids yet they still have irresponsible sex and leave their kids behind. Shame changes nothing. Uplifting people and giving them positive reinforcement torward attainable goals is what changes people.
Not to mention I would bet all my coli buxxx none of these "truth tellers" are out saying any of this shyt in person. You want to help the black community, you have to do more than emulate Tommy Sotomayor on a message board

Plus these dudes love to tell the truth about women, but get :damn: when "the truth" gets told about them
 

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:snoop: The mods in here continue to let this thread stay in here but let it be a black power thread and it would have been gone a long time ago. This shyt is pathetic.
 

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Not to mention I would bet all my coli buxxx none of these "truth tellers" are out saying any of this shyt in person. You want to help the black community, you have to do more than emulate Tommy Sotomayor on a message board

Plus these dudes love to tell the truth about women, but get :damn: when "the truth" gets told about them

if it comes up in discussion, i do say the same shyt. but im not going around ranting about this shyt offline to anyone who will listen, if that's what you're saying.
 
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