Tommy da gawd points out kelly rowlands self hate

[Wild self]

Kelly Rowland Discussing How She Didnt Like Being Dark-Skinned Shocking Revalation - YouTube

Dude went off. I still love black women, but he dropped the napalm.

 

[marcuz]

The mods in here continue to let this thread stay in here but let it be a black power thread and it would have been gone a long time ago. This shyt is pathetic.

stop fukking cryin, you already snitched on the thread and it'll be moved when they see it. acting like these bytches on here, always trynna move any thread they disagree with.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

if it comes up in discussion, i do say the same shyt. but im not going around ranting about this shyt offline to anyone who will listen, if that's what you're saying.

Whens the last time you posted in a thread about black men fukking up?

 

[Wild self]

black women initiated the whole "bashing in public" thing, you do realize that, right? and it's funny, y'all say that type of shyt about a dude who gets a couple of thousand views.

but completely ignore the countless black women making a fool of themselves on wshh and youtube. i guess they aint making a fool of y'all huh? but adding a few minutes of commentary, well that surely makes a fool out of ya.

I remember Tariq Nasheed saying something that it's the black woman's turn to get shytted on in public, decades after black men been shytted on in public. Guess with the rise of youtube and the marriage statistics of black women not getting married anymore, he may be right about that shyt.

 

[marcuz]

Whens the last time you posted in a thread about black men fukking up?

the shawty lo 10 baby mommas thread

but i don't really make many threads about black women either, i just drop comments in pre-existing threads.

 

[Born2BKing]

stop fukking cryin, you already snitched on the thread and it'll be moved when they see it. acting like these bytches on here, always trynna move any thread they disagree with.

Marcuz! How are ya my guy? Everything good in Cali?

 

[marcuz]

Marcuz! How are ya my guy? Everything good in Cali?

killing me with kindness

 

[Mountain]

You're all over the place Meach, first you say this:

Nobody is free from criticism. Strong responsible men shouldn't concern themselves with criticizing people because they shouldn't be dealing with those people in the first place.

Then you say the bold literally two or three posts later:

He is part of the problem. We are ALL part of the community, and if you are not actively trying to to fix the problems within the community then you are part of the problem. Not only is tommy not trying to fix the problem he is adding to it.

On one hand you support complete unity by stating we are "all" part of the community, then on the other hand you support segregation by suggesting we ignore/exclude parts of our community, its hypocritical.

As for Sotomayor, I'm not sure if his persona was formed strictly to attract views or if he genuinely has a hateful heart towards sisters, but what he's doing is non conducive. He addresses and criticizes without any type of decent build after, that's obviously not productive. If he spent half the time on his show criticizing destructive parts of our community (not just issues regarding some black women) and the other half discussing effective viable ways to improve matters, I'd have a lot more respect for him.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

the motive is to shame negative behavior instead of praising it or allowing it as the norm. for decades, we've made it a habit to normalize the shyt every other community rejects. at what point are you doing to say enough is enough? you think black women will continue to think being single mothers is the shyt if everyone shyts on 'em for it? you think black women will continue to let aint shyt men fukk em raw, if they can no longer run to the "he abandoned us" excuse after gettin knocked up after?

Right idea, wrong application.

Shaming them won't help the situation

 

[MeachTheMonster]

You're all over the place Meach, first you say this:



Then you say the bold literally two or three posts later:



On one hand you support complete unity by stating we are "all" part of the community, then on the other hand you support segregation by suggesting we ignore/exclude parts of our community, its hypocritical.

As for Sotomayor, I'm not sure if his persona was formed strictly to attract views or if he genuinely has a hateful heart towards sisters, but what he's doing is non conducive. He addresses and criticizes without any type of decent build after, that's obviously not productive. If he spent half the time on his show criticizing destructive parts of our community (not just issues regarding some black women) and the other half discussing effective viable ways to improve matters, I'd have a lot more respect for him.

You are misunderstanding what I'm saying. I'm not saying to ignore/exclude part of our community. I've said it plenty of times on here I'm all about uifting our community. It's what I do for a living, I run a youth empowerment program and our primary focus is to uplift the people that tommy sotomayor is talking about. At the same time as a man I have no need to complain about the behavior of these people because I stand on my own merit. They don't effect my life if I don't let them so there is no point in complaining about what they do.

 

[Wild self]

it's amusing you think manhood and leadership skills are traits automatically instilled in boys. when it's mostly learned behavior passed down from a strong father. but hey, no wonder we have so many confused hyper masculine guys in the blk community.

People in here can't handle that shyt.

 

[marcuz]

Right idea, wrong application.

Shaming them won't help the situation

i think it will though, especially if it gains real traction and guys like @Born2BKing, @Willstyles, @MeachTheMonster become the minority with their

 

[MeachTheMonster]

i think it will though, especially if it gains real traction and guys like @Born2BKing, @Willstyles, @MeachTheMonster become the minority with their

Man if guys like me became the minority we'd be way fukked up. I am married and educated, I have no baby mommas, both of my kids are advanced for their age and I give back to my communty every day. You......talk shyt on the Internet


If more black guys were like me we'd be running the world right now.

 

[marcuz]

Man if guys like me became the minority we'd be way fukked up. I am married and educated, I have no baby mommas, both of my kids are advanced for their age and I give back to my communty every day. You......talk shyt on the Internet


If more black guys were like me we'd be running the world right now.

 

[Anothergirl]

i like Tommy cause he's funny and spits a lot of truth...but i like kelly and think some of the rage is misplaced here. she obviously said what she said to help girls with self esteem\realtionships issues on some "hey..i'm famous and i can tell you this too shall pass" type shyt.
but @ "and Beyonce wanna be Taylor Swift" so true..