Tomorrow getting my first STD test in 9 years...

[BrentWoodSean38]

feel sorry for u nikka...they gone stick that long metal joint into da tip of ur dikk FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THINGS RIGHTEOUS..HAAALLLPPPPP

They did that to me I believe my people lied on me when I was on some mental health shyt

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Let us know when you buy your first condom too.

 

[Coco Loco]

First of all, I'm already hard on myself, because there is no excuse for me not getting tested in nearly a decade, other than, I haven't prioritized it...

This is gonna be at least a yearly thing for me now, and I'm also getting my first physical as an adult tomorrow. In general, I've finally begun to take my health seriously, 4 years out for 40...

Just to answer an unasked question:

I'm not getting this test because I feel something is wrong with me. There's no physical change in me and I feel fine, I look fine. I gotta get scheduled for a sleep apnea study as well, thats what really has me shook, is that I think something is wrong with me there.

I thought about going to get tested a handful of times over the last 2 years, but as I stated, it wasn't a priority, so I never did. That's quite embarrassing, given I don't use condoms and I've slept with quite a few women in the last 9 years.

One woman I slept with a couple months ago, told me after we had sex, as in like, over a month later, that she bumps up on her coochie from time to time, but it comes and goes. I was pissed because I wouldn't have slept with her had she told me this prior---->and no, when we slept together, she had no bumps, discoloration, or anything that would indicate she has something.

She said she got tested 6 years ago and somebody told her she has herpes, but when she got tested two years after that, she was told it was a false positive, then tested after that, and it was negative for herpes. She hasn't been tested herself in over 3 years and she has avoided going to really see what the issue with those intermittent bumps are.

For my part, I irresponsibly haven't been tested in even longer, so I can't shyt on her. But what I did do, in an effort to continue evolving as a more responsible man, I haven't slept with her or anyone else since.

So she also helped initiate this process for me mentally, but I've already been contemplating it for awhile


Lastly, we have a group of virtuous, self-righteous posters here, so to those people. I'm very secure in who I am and where I'm going, and who I'm becoming. I've long said that I share aspects of my life on here, because this board is a diary for me, and also, there is nothing I'm really ashamed of. Every L is a learning experience, and one thing my history shows, is that a brother LEARNS. So hopefully thru some of my shared experiences, other guys who are less vocal, but have struggled in similar ways, can be inspired to meet their challenges head on.

So in closing, I fully expect to come back healthy on the STD test, or if I have something, its one of those things that goes away after you take some pills for a few days. 9 years, I've had no physical or visual issues with my meat, nor have I felt sick in that sense. But I am glad I'm going to get it, a positive step forward as I continue to grow!

 

[Gotright]

Good luck bruh. I got get tested every time I get locked up so I can't really say if I would have waited 9 years

 

[Shadow King]

I ain't even that active and I still try to get it done once a year...

 

[MajesticLion]

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[King_Kamala61]

If y'all just accept handjobs you wouldn't have to worry about STDs and pregnancy...but y'all head hard as hell

 

[$cam-U-Well_Jack$on]

If you not in a committed relationship, you gotta get them things yearly.

Everyone is fukking everything... don't care how sweet the woman is.

FYI: Herpes won't pop up on a test unless you have an active infection. Something like 80% of people have herpes and most don't even know it, that's why they don't test for it unless you specifically ask for it.

Yearly?! I personally get tested monthly.

 

[Fanservice]

Good luck bruh. I got get tested every time I get locked up so I can't really say if I would have waited 9 years

Ayo wtf

 

[Mystic]

Because I feel like sharing. If you don't care, why do you need to comment?

Dudes a weirdo that's all

 

[Mystic]

Nicca you are CRAZY

Raw is law!

 

[murksiderock]

You should get tested at minimum of two times per year. I realize most people not fukking like that so less would probably suffice. But if you’re fukking at least 10 women per year, get tested often.

I'm not fukking 10 women per year, its been quite some time since I was on that. Like, we going back to 2014 and 2013...

But, I'm progressing, because I'm definitely gonna make regular testing a thing.

But to be clear you also don't use condoms - why didn't you get tested before all this time?

This is exactly how STD rates and super-diseases and pandemics come about.

I stated in my first post, it just wasn't a priority. To be active sexually and not prioritize testing, is irresponsible and immature.

I always rationalized it like this:

When my oldest kids' mom was about 4 months pregnant, she had a prenatal appointment that tested her for STDs, and she came up positive for one.

Next time I saw her, she tripped on me, saying I gave it to her. I knew I couldn't have gave it to her, because she was the only woman I'd been with, since I got outta jail in 2015, and I got tested in jail, and was negative for everything. And this was negative for everything after running thru my hoe phase in 2013 and '14...

I got tested somewhere around like January 2015 in jail, got out in March, between then and August/September 2016, my kids' mom the only woman I was with. So she tripped on me, and told me to get tested. I did within a week, and I had the same shyt she had...

(I can't recall what it was, when the shyt came back positive, they have me these pills to take for like 4 or 5 days, and said it would be gone. I had no physical symptoms, so unless she tested positive, there's no way I woulda knew I had anything.

I did exactly what they said, came back to retest like a week later, and it was negative on that and everything else).

So to the point of my rationalization, the one time in my entire life I had anything, came from my oldest kids' mom, and it had no symptoms, and went away after a few days on drugs. I never had burning dikk, never no bumps, rashes, discoloration, nothing. And I wasn't just fukking any and everything.

So to me, I was like, I'm careful with who I fukk, and I'm clean, so I'm good!

Its dumb as hell to me now, just explaining why I rationalized not getting tested. Then for 3½ years after that we were still together and I never slept with anyone else. After we broke up, met my youngest daughter's mom, who also had a scare that she had herpes, but she got tested when she was pregnant abd it was negative everything.

2 years with her, never slept with no one else, so in a span of 7 years, the only women I slept with, were the mothers of my children. I "knew" I was clear.

I became sexually active soon as she and I broke up a couple years ago, so honestly at any point of the last 2½ years would have been a good time to get tested.

I'm doing it now, though!

"Hard on myself" my ass. You have some of the most lax sexual/ relationship related morals I've read on here. And then of course you be in my DM...fml respectfully.

One thing that I know makes me unique among many (most?) men, is I'm not a liar, I'm not a manipulator, and I'm not one of these nikkas who lack awareness, and can't fukk up or admit when they're wrong, or cop to their mistakes or flaws.

Any woman I'm interested in has a fair shot to decide if she continues with me in any fashion, sexually or platonically, because I have no secrets, there are no skeletons waiting to jump outta the closet. There is no waiting for the shoe to drop or a wolf in sheep's clothing.

I'm not for many women, and I'm secure enough in my own skin to recognize that and I'm okay with it. And I'll say this, based off the thousands of conversations men on this board share about their thoughts or interactions with women, I'm damn near 100% sure that I'm more attractive (not speaking physical here, though thats true too) to most women, than most guys on here and outside, because of not only the characteristics I described about myself above (and as a woman you know women value honesty and being yourself);

But because I'm entirely opposite in many of the views many of these guys share. My personality comes with its flaws or red flags or whatever you'd wanna call em, but you get to see that and make that decision straightforward, aint no p*ssyfoiting with me.

And its hilarious that some of the nighas who criticize me the most, have posts upon posts of, let's just say "female repellant", its just different from the things I share that could be red flags, but are red flags in itself. But alot of these virtue-signaling nikkas on here got other skeletons and are more driven by how others accept them----->even anonymous online personas they'll never meet.

Another man will never bother me, and far as women go, like I said I'm comfortable with Rodney and understanding every woman ain't gonna be into Rodney. So I'm not tripping on that!

But I'll tap into your DMs periodically to see if you're single. You haven't come around yet, its cool, I'm a faceless guy on a forum but I'll say the conversations we've had, about whatever, whether in private or in the open like this, are why I'll continue to at least check the temperature, because there's at bare minimum conversational chemistry with us, and I think you know this, I've seen enough interactions you've had with other guys on here.

We live a quick flight from each other and we close in age so I'll check the temp here and there. I enjoy chopping it up with you though, so while its likely we never meet, why would that change anything? we've never met, neither you nor I are losing or gaining anything, and I'm still gonna love talking about whatever with you on here.

But you should continue to consider what accepting my invitation means I'm really That Guy and it ain't because of the typical superficial shyt---->and thru our dialogue over time, I suspect you know I'm That Guy, but I'm imperfect and have kids...

You know I rock with you though, Freak!

 

[Gotright]

Ayo wtf

they offer STD test during intake

 

[tay1]

RIP OP

 

[murksiderock]

Bruh u get tests back in like 30-45 mins on mychart.

I saw someone talk anout this MyChart recently, which, I have one, so that is also spurring this. I made the appointment on MyChart.

Good luck bruh. I got get tested every time I get locked up so I can't really say if I would have waited 9 years

I got tested the last real time I was locked up. I did a decent amount of time between 16 and 26, but in the last 10 years, I've only done 3 weekends/6 days (2016); and 2 days (2020). 8 days total, since I got out March 18, 2015.

I ain't in that world anymore and I'm not doing other shyt that breaks the law to get me locked up, but yeah if I was still in and outta jail, I'd take advantage of the testing!