Too Good of a Woman? Update: I smashed

[SunnyD]

Good thing is she doesn’t know where I live. First time we met at a bar and second time she invited me to her spot so I don’t have to worry about any pop ups. I’m not new to the game but overall I do feel like I fukked up a lil bit but I had to sample that ass after she damn near demanded it. No sympathy for the women playing the game but if they’re not I try to take it easy on em. Long story short I ended it so she can move on and find a better fit for her.

I’m not dapping you you knew better
. You didn’t have to sample just because she made it easy. You knew she was giving it up because it’s what she thought you wanted. .. and you probably only ended it because the sex was subpar do better

 

[Lootha VanDraws]

How was that Puritanical p*ssy breh? Storytime

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

And this is the shyt women encounter and ppl call women crazy or bitter. Naw, they’re just running into men who play games even when the women presents herself as someone who is decent and not trying to play games.

True. It goes both ways though.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Damn breh. I hear ya but I honestly gave her an out. After my initial post I FT’d her and told her I didn’t think we were a good fit. She took that as a challenge and pushed back. Friday I got lit and drunk called her and things went the way they went. I excused myself in the morning and told her again I’m not the right person for her and this time her response was just K so I think she gets it.

If you were clear and honest with her, and she still didn't get the picture, then it's fully on her.

I thought you said you had sold her a dream and led her on, which is a scumbag move. A man should never lose his integrity over some ass.

 

[StackorStarve]

If you were clear and honest with her, and she still didn't get the picture, then it's fully on her.

I thought you said you had sold her a dream and led her on, which is a scumbag move. A man should never lose his integrity over some ass.

Agreed. I’m too old to be lying to anyone. I told her what was up and she did what some women do and chase after the guy that doesn’t want her. I gave her a pass. She invited me to the ass after the fact and I took it. That’s on her but even with that I still feel like I should’ve declined because I know she’s green. Best I could do after the fact is step away. If I was a savage I’d still be working her.

 

[StackorStarve]

And this is the shyt women encounter and ppl call women crazy or bitter. Naw, they’re just running into men who play games even when the women presents herself as someone who is decent and not trying to play games.

I may have misspoke or y’all misinterpreted what I said so my bad for the miscommunication. Let me clean it up. After the first date I explained to her via FaceTime so she could see me clearly why I didn’t think we’d be a good fit because of what she’s looking for and who I am. She wasn’t taking no for an answer. I became her pet project to “fix”. My mistake or scumbaggery was calling her after I had a couple drinks in me on Friday night and it went the way it went. Mind you she’s 37 and intelligent. I accept my blame for reaching out after the fact but I’m not going to sit here and excuse her decision to chase after and give herself to someone that clearly said they didn’t see a future with her.

 

[Eternally Jaded]

If you were clear and honest with her, and she still didn't get the picture, then it's fully on her.

I thought you said you had sold her a dream and led her on, which is a scumbag move. A man should never lose his integrity over some ass.

My stance used to be I'm not gonna lie to you but i will let you lie to yourself.
And since hope killing isn't my thing, I'll def lean into the lie if you want me to.

Now though, spot a headache duck the head space.

Her religion has done her no favors though, and I say this as a spiritual guy.

Sex is something to be enjoyed by husbands and wives and if her religion is impeding that she needs to wakeup.

Hopefully she finds what's she's looking for.

 

[Kasher Juan]

Brothers grow up

 

[UWasntThere]

You should just pulled out and beat off on her face. She doesn’t respect you.

 

[dr. pill biden]

I may have misspoke or y’all misinterpreted what I said so my bad for the miscommunication. Let me clean it up. After the first date I explained to her via FaceTime so she could see me clearly why I didn’t think we’d be a good fit because of what she’s looking for and who I am. She wasn’t taking no for an answer. I became her pet project to “fix”. My mistake or scumbaggery was calling her after I had a couple drinks in me on Friday night and it went the way it went. Mind you she’s 37 and intelligent. I accept my blame for reaching out after the fact but I’m not going to sit here and excuse her decision to chase after and give herself to someone that clearly said they didn’t see a future with her.

damn this is just like the garden of eden…eve slipped up and then adam put the blame on eve rather than him telling the bytch no you and i both know thats wrong

what an ending to the story. its poetic

 

[Yas]

Agreed. I’m too old to be lying to anyone. I told her what was up and she did what some women do and chase after the guy that doesn’t want her. I gave her a pass. She invited me to the ass after the fact and I took it. That’s on her but even with that I still feel like I should’ve declined because I know she’s green. Best I could do after the fact is step away. If I was a savage I’d still be working her.

Sounds like you sent mix signals now you are trying to cover it up by saying she knew what she was getting into.

 

[StackorStarve]

Brothers grow up

How so? Just curious on your perspective. Place yourself in the position. She’s bad. You don’t see a future anyway because of her personality. You tell her you don’t see a future. She still invites you over to her place late night. You just going to sit there and talk all night or are you going in?

 

[Kasher Juan]

How so? Just curious on your perspective. Place yourself in the position. She’s bad. You don’t see a future anyway because of her personality. You tell her you don’t see a future. She still invites you over to her place late night. You just going to sit there and talk all night or are you going in?

We gotta lead em(women) dog. Not being holier than thou, I’ve done it before. But you have to aggressively turn them away. If we really want to see them grow. I’m asking you to not be just a man in that moment which is not realistic but shyt if we got one person doing it, and another person doing it. We can rebuild.

 

[StackorStarve]

We gotta lead em(women) dog. Not being holier than thou, I’ve done it before. But you have to aggressively turn them away. If we really want to see them grow. I’m asking you to not be just a man in that moment which is not realistic but shyt if we got one person doing it, and another person doing it. We can rebuild.

Respect that. Dap and rep.

 

[Kasher Juan]

Respect that. Dap and rep.

My bad for saying grow up. Only read the first post.