I've seen a few posts here from men hating on fathers taking care of their daughters needs. Says it creates a false sense of entitlement that the man after the father is supposed to do the same.
Too many black people look at black dads solely as ATMs
- Thread starter BrothaZay
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All fathers are viewed this way, because men are supposed to be providers. However, since so many black men are not married to, or living with the mothers of their children, it seems like they’re ATMs, because they are not seeing and actively involved in their children’s lives every day. Look at the responses to the Nick Cannon threads.
“He can afford it, so it’s okay.”
If that is your perspective, that financially providing makes you a good father, don’t be surprised when we’re viewed as ATMs.
Stop having children out of wedlock.
That's for his next thread titled "Why are most of these new females prostitutes?"
We know Zay is trolling as part of his shtick
But I do hope some brehs don’t run in here tryna agree with the statement
Pure Water
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What dad isn't looked at as an ATM? Come on now.
And if you're not in your child's life besides giving them money what else do you expect?
And if you're not in your child's life besides giving them money what else do you expect?
Mindfield333
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Unfortunately people will engage more on negative topics
Formerly Black Trash
Philosopher, Connoisseur, Future Legend
I don't hang around ppl like that
Repped
Rockstar Mom
PhatGurlSwag
This is a parent period. Every time my son calls my name, it’s to show me a new pair of sneakers or shirt he wants, or if I can put money on his PlayStation account
Anyway, I’m 32 and if I call my mom or dad for anything they gon send it or pull up too, so I’m not even mad
Anyway, I’m 32 and if I call my mom or dad for anything they gon send it or pull up too, so I’m not even mad
IsThatBrothaMouzone?
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Men tend to baby their daughters while women baby their sons.
As men, we have to teach our daughters the same way we teach our sons. If you're in school, working hard, I'll help you. If you got a degree making more $$$ than I am but just don't wanna pay for something.....
at you wondering. This is exactly how this nikka mind work when he see tweets and Facebook post
Absolutely. Bottom line I'll help further what my children already have in progress. Especially if they're already working or working towards a goal. Then again, thats a testimony towards parenting and the support system around that child. This goes for boys and girls.
Black fathers aren't respected period
OfTheCross
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I mean either you can handle it….
Or your daughter will be selling cat
basically. with daughters, you've got to teach them that they don't need to ask a man outside of the home for anything. you don't want them to feel like they need to be with someone because of what they can get from them.
