Topic: Is a man paying all the bills, submissive behavior?

[BrothaZay]

I'm not talking old school men, or men that take care of their actual wife or some shyt.

Im talking men who have their girlfriends or some shyt live in with them and tell them they don't have to work.

Like, call it for what it is, that female is basically pimpin him. Its almost no different than hoz giving a pimp all they money while he does nothing but keep them in checc.

Most men who pay everything for a woman and she doesnt work are submissive, not masculine "real men"

 

[TRUEST]

It’s foolish behavior

 

[DropTopDoc]

It’s one thing if you cover things while she in school or something to that effect, but to have her just chilling and you doing all the work that’s a no go

 

[Vandelay]

In a sense, yes.

There's some tradeoffs that even it out depending on the circumstances, but generally it is kind of submissive.

If I could afford for my woman not to have to work, when we have kids and they're not in grade school yet, sure. That's the only scenario I could see it not being some simp shyt.

I know this, because I had a chick that moved in with me and decided she was going to quit her damn job. It didn't fly for too long because she thought p*ssy and occasionally cooking was an even tradeoff.

 

[King Poetic]

Me and my girl lives together and she pays half The rent, light and gas bill period

It’s 2019 and if u not making over 100k and living in a cheap city u shouldn’t even think about paying all the rent

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

No, not submissive at all considering he can cut her off at anytime.

That said, my girl needs to work at least part time

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

you hella lost if your lady not providing for you and you work more than 38 hours a week

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

If in the 21st century you're paying for everything that's a big L. Especially if you get divorced. If you're with someone with little to no job experience or education, the courts will rule against you and that alimony gonna be a biiiiiitch.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

In a sense, yes.

There's some tradeoffs that even it out depending on the circumstances, but generally it is kind of submissive.

If I could afford for my woman not to have to work, when we have kids and they're not in grade school yet, sure. That's the only scenario I could see it not being some simp shyt.

I know this, because I had a chick that moved in with me and decided she was going to quit her damn job. It didn't fly for too long because she thought p*ssy and occasionally cooking was an even tradeoff.

Do you believe cooking, cleaning, and taking care of the kids is a full time job?

Some women feel like they shouldn't have to do all that and work a 9-5​

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Depends...does he forbid her from working or did she refuse?

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

Me and my girl lives together and she pays half The rent, light and gas bill period

It’s 2019 and if u not making over 100k and living in a cheap city u shouldn’t even think about paying all the rent

Whole families can't afford to go solo with only one spouse working.

Unless she seriously Susie homemaker, always cooking, or doing arts and crafts and shyt on youtube, it's a no go. You can't make it on a single income.

 

[BrothaZay]

Do you believe cooking, cleaning, and taking care of the kids is a full time job?

Some women feel like they shouldn't have to do all that and work a 9-5​

If the kids arent old enough to go to school then yea its a full time job.

But females that are alone all day that call "taking care of the house" a job are just lazy bums.

 

[BrothaZay]

Depends...does he forbid her from working or did she refuse?

Does your answer change depending?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

If the kids arent old enough to go to school then yea its a full time job.

But females that are alone all day that call "taking care of the house" a job are just lazy bums.

Definitely lazy bums. The logic doesn't make sense when you think about. If the kids are old enough to go to school on their own and do chores around the house, what exactly are you doing?

 

[HarlemHottie]

No, not submissive at all considering he can cut her off at anytime.