Toxic Singlemotherhood

[Wild self]

OP I hear you but you have women that support this shyt because they think it's a way to have a come up or think it's cute, trying to normalize sex culture and the inclusion in it. Rather than the women who participate in this being shamed; the women that speak out against it or try to instill some sense of value are the ones being attacked and shamed. Basically, you have one aspect of women telling them "this is not it, do better, set a better example". Then you have their voices being drowned out by the " why are you shaming me for showing my ass, if you need to use men then do what you gotta do" It happens on the internet, all. the. time. The frustration is real for you as it is for us.

and those women are called "pick mes" for using logic or attaining a higher standard than what is pushed in the media.

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

that acceptance is surface level from some of the gay folk that are black that I've grown to know over the years

but who's to say that it'll stay there tho. history is not written in stone.

Yet is society changing for the better?

I see more acceptance than assistance.

the life expectancy of a trans woman [?] is 35

and a number of black teens that are gay etc end up on the streets or worse.

It is for the LGBTQ and feminist community

 

[King Poetic]

A lot of black single moms of all ages don’t like to hear that they are the ones at fault most of the time , but love hearing that it was the black man or men in the community who need to be responsible for their bad decisions...

But didn’t the facts come out saying over 40% of black men don’t have kids , where 70% of sistas are single moms.... so this look like most of these women in the hood and suburbs as well cause they breed ratchets as well are accepting the same dirty dikk from dudes with kids.....

I hit a lot of single moms and only 2 have ever admit they fukk with the wrong dudes... the others was dingbats who took no responsibility

 

[BlueMoon]

Me and my grandmother were talking just the other day about this. We came to terms that a lot black women fall for anything, not that I’m saying white peoples don’t I’m just speaking from what I see of the environment around me. But yeah I feel like it does no good for black women to be having kids out of wedlock, because blacks just suffer that’s just the reality. I even noticed it in my mother. She had 4 kids out of wedlock 3 of me and my siblings share the same dad, while the oldest has a different dad. It ain’t just my mother either. I see a lot of women in my mothers age still running around like there in there 20’s.

My mother has this ex, just out the blue he stopped calling her and answering her calls. My mother became suicidal and depressed. My mother would do drive by’s to his house( yeah he in his 30’s with a lot of kids still living with his mother). She found out that he was seeing other girls and bringing girls in his house. Keep Ming this man has many kids, no high school diploma, and lives with his momma. Fast forward to a little while ago, she starts back talking to him. My grandmother and my sisters and I was in such dis belief. This man would call her out her name, all type of dumb b******. I told her there wouldn’t Ben nothing a man can say to me if he called me out my name. I told my mother I really think it’s something wrong with you. Like what are you teaching me and my sisters when you do stuffy like this. I told her she should’ve dreaded him as soon as she heard that he lived with his mother, and on top of that no high school diploma or ged. My mother uses not type of discernment or deductive reasoning, but anyway I’m so grateful for my grandmother, because if it wasn’t for her me and my sisters would have been just like my mother. Like we really don’t understand why mother is like that, because my grandmother is the opposite.

 

[Astroslik]

and those women are called "pick mes" for using logic or attaining a higher standard than what is pushed in the media.

Look what they did to Ayesha curry

Bottom barrel bytches and thots (what the media pushes also) have a problem with her

 

[Wild self]

Look what they did to Ayesha curry

Bottom barrel bytches and thots (what the media pushes also) have a problem with her

For real, a "Pick me" broad is the only woman that I would realistically marry. I can't marry a woman that cant be turned on by a convo filled with substance and intelligence. Those ratchet, overtly emotional women that you have to play game constantly, are not worthy to be married to; but those same ratchet women are trying to make their kind the ONLY kind of woman that exist.

 

[Wild self]

Me and my grandmother were talking just the other day about this. We came to terms that a lot black women fall for anything, not that I’m saying white peoples don’t I’m just speaking from what I see of the environment around me. But yeah I feel like it does no good for black women to be having kids out of wedlock, because blacks just suffer that’s just the reality. I even noticed it in my mother. She had 4 kids out of wedlock 3 of me and my siblings share the same dad, while the oldest has a different dad. It ain’t just my mother either. I see a lot of women in my mothers age still running around like there in there 20’s.

My mother has this ex, just out the blue he stopped calling her and answering her calls. My mother became suicidal and depressed. My mother would do drive by’s to his house( yeah he in his 30’s with a lot of kids still living with his mother). She found out that he was seeing other girls and bringing girls in his house. Keep Ming this man has many kids, no high school diploma, and lives with his momma. Fast forward to a little while ago, she starts back talking to him. My grandmother and my sisters and I was in such dis belief. This man would call her out her name, all type of dumb b******. I told her there wouldn’t Ben nothing a man can say to me if he called me out my name. I told my mother I really think it’s something wrong with you. Like what are you teaching me and my sisters when you do stuffy like this. I told her she should’ve dreaded him as soon as she heard that he lived with his mother, and on top of that no high school diploma or ged. My mother uses not type of discernment or deductive reasoning, but anyway I’m so grateful for my grandmother, because if it wasn’t for her me and my sisters would have been just like my mother. Like we really don’t understand why mother is like that, because my grandmother is the opposite.

So were you ever called a "pick me"?

 

[number21]

black female dysfunction has never been up for discussion in our community

accusations of self hatred, bitterness, divisiveness, not getting p*ssy, misogyny or even being an agent can be hurled at you for even trying to do so

but we have no qualms about discussing the problems some of our brothers have. fascinating when you think on it

Yep. Note how quick some cats came in here quick to brush this off and remove accountability for these women.

 

[SheWantTheD]

In real life, I don't know "thot" single mothers but I do know angry single mothers.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Mainstream media can't and won't blame women for shyt, because if they do.. that's a lot of money going down the toilet.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Me and my grandmother were talking just the other day about this. We came to terms that a lot black women fall for anything, not that I’m saying white peoples don’t I’m just speaking from what I see of the environment around me. But yeah I feel like it does no good for black women to be having kids out of wedlock, because blacks just suffer that’s just the reality. I even noticed it in my mother. She had 4 kids out of wedlock 3 of me and my siblings share the same dad, while the oldest has a different dad. It ain’t just my mother either. I see a lot of women in my mothers age still running around like there in there 20’s.

My mother has this ex, just out the blue he stopped calling her and answering her calls. My mother became suicidal and depressed. My mother would do drive by’s to his house( yeah he in his 30’s with a lot of kids still living with his mother). She found out that he was seeing other girls and bringing girls in his house. Keep Ming this man has many kids, no high school diploma, and lives with his momma. Fast forward to a little while ago, she starts back talking to him. My grandmother and my sisters and I was in such dis belief. This man would call her out her name, all type of dumb b******. I told her there wouldn’t Ben nothing a man can say to me if he called me out my name. I told my mother I really think it’s something wrong with you. Like what are you teaching me and my sisters when you do stuffy like this. I told her she should’ve dreaded him as soon as she heard that he lived with his mother, and on top of that no high school diploma or ged. My mother uses not type of discernment or deductive reasoning, but anyway I’m so grateful for my grandmother, because if it wasn’t for her me and my sisters would have been just like my mother. Like we really don’t understand why mother is like that, because my grandmother is the opposite.

You grandma ain't different.

She just got older, slowed down and wised up.

It's no coincidence many grandparents are raising their grandchildren because the parents are nowhere to be found. The grandparents did an awful job of raising their children, thus making the grandchildren suffer.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Okay you're right. I do know single mother thots. lol But nothing like the video. They do their thing more quietly. But the angry part is 100% true.

 

[TaxCollector13459]

For real, a "Pick me" broad is the only woman that I would realistically marry. I can't marry a woman that cant be turned on by a convo filled with substance and intelligence. Those ratchet, overtly emotional women that you have to play game constantly, are not worthy to be married to; but those same ratchet women are trying to make their kind the ONLY kind of woman that exist.

Bruh, this shyt planned. And im speaking as a dude who got both his parents till this day and handsome gang


Nikkas waking up from getting married and no longer letting courts hoe em for their money. And they (women/law) resent that shyt. It aint these simps they resenting, its the rest of us, they can already be vindictive, so they're poisoning the supply to force us in submission on some scorched earth policy



Why you think thot culture so big right now and these brawds crowding dr miami office so bad, or getting that favela fill up



Fake azzes, lips, hair, skin, eyes.
They aint playing fair no mo

 

[jackson35]

I just saw this video in JBO.
https://www.thecoli.com/threads/thot-and-her-mom-twerking-flashing.698542/#post-33063797


Toxic masculinity in the black community is constantly discussed now, but we never hear anything about single mothers in the black community in the mainstream media. Some of these women are out here twerking on snapchat in front of their sons, recording their toddlers recite NBA youngboy songs, selling p*ssy, getting ran through by a different man every week while their child is in a different room, etc. I haven't seen any psychologist or sociologist on TV talk about how this type of behavior negatively affects black children.













We already have the system of WS against us. Alot of these women are turning their daughters into thots and setting up their sons up for prison or death.

of course we are going to raise these issue like we don't live in the same communities with these women right? we are just going to watch these women drown because as men we like to pretend like we don't know what to do to change this dynamic.

 

[Barnett114]

40% of black men don’t have kids , where 70% of sistas are single moms

70% of the black women who have children are single mothers

40.6% of black women are childless. Basically the same women and men are having children.

Percentage of childless women in the U.S. 2016, by ethnic group | Statistic